[Too small for her hole?]

Hell no.

[What do i need?]

Google has plenty of recommendations for you. Hell, they even have places you can order what you want.

[Amp inputs and remote turn on lead]

Run it to your battery, not any speaker terminals or the like.

[Amp inputs and remote turn on lead]

I'd suggest getting a converter like everyone else. As far as your remote lead, I would go ahead and install a rocker switch somewhere and use that to turn the amp on and off.

That wattage on the remote lead doesn't really matter does it? As long as it is hot? I got plenty of rockers to work with.

Not as far as I could ever tell. As long as it's 12v you're fine.

[Amp inputs and remote turn on lead]

I'd suggest getting a converter like everyone else. As far as your remote lead, I would go ahead and install a rocker switch somewhere and use that to turn the amp on and off.

[Some people.]

If it was mine I'd leave it lowered like it is and put on the Cragars like he wants. Cragar SS' would look amazing on that truck. Then give it a bitchin' system.

And a 454 as well.