Broken <3

[99GPGTX]

any one what to hear the story?

[Guest MegaloManiac]

my pms are cleared just for you

[99GPGTX]

never thought this could ever happen...i never really dated...at all...in H.S. so i go to college and finally find a decent girl that is really attractive and i have a real connection with...any ways she randomly IMs me and finds me on Facebook. and i find her on Myspace...all in same day...so i ask her out that Friday and have to absolute PERFECT messed up first day (long story short, we got lost, we were driving everywhere, found our way back, had a awesome time...and at the end of the night i stayed over at her dorm). it was absolutely a perfect date...we didnt do anything an unmarried couple shouldnt do. so the next night she stayed at my house...same story. anyways 3 weeks later we became a "couple". soo we progressed a little bit faster then normal but the chemistry was just right! so we were together and everything was perfect. i finally found the courage and told her how i really felt...that i loved her. she says she loves me. so at this point we are just so high off of each other... anyways, we started classes about 2 weeks ago (just past our 5 month aniver.) and we are both really busy but i think everything is fine. shes busy, im busy but we still find time to see each other everyday at least for a little bit. weekends we see each other too, i think everything is just fine.

she starts to act a lil weird (like not so touchy feely anymore). i was planing on talking to her about it but just yesterday she txt me a ask if we can talk that night. so i say yes and all day i am just nervous and anxious i dont know what to expect. i get home and call her, and she comes over.

she doesnt say anything at first then she says "i dont know how to start" so im thinking ****! and so she says that the feeling just isnt there anymore, that she's so busy with work and school that she just doesnt have time for me and that how she used to feel just isnt there anymore. this is completely out of the blue to me...no real indication that she feels this way. to be completely honest I COULD NOT DO A BETTER JOB AT BEING HER BF! even if i tried i could not do a better job. i take her out, i call her, tell her she's gorgeous, tell her i love her, swallow my pride and do anything i can for her. i even told her this and she said that she knows and that i treated her better then any bf shes ever had. sooo idk what to think.

she said that as of right now we arent together. and that she still wants to talk and that she is just too busy for me blah blah...

i love her so much and dont want to be without her. i really thought that we would be together...forever...to be honest. i feel that strongly for her.

sorry i guess im just venting is there any advice that you guys can give me?

im affaid that if we get back together that she might leave me again sometime down the line.

a familiar face...

i know we are young...but i thought/think she is the one.

[Guest MegaloManiac]

hmm.. sounds like she just needs a break...hate to say it.

I say tell her how you feel and express how you feel, and say that your door is always open for her.

give her some space for a bit, she'll realize a life without you then she'll more than likely come back IMO...they always do.

i wish i could help you any better. take my advise or just leave it no worries.

[99GPGTX]

werd we think alike...i told that i would bother her...ya know bug her, call her, etc.i told her that ill wait for her...she said not forever...i was like for you i would. i think she got the point. i hope.

[white_boi_audio]

Yo she does look like Wifey material and well yall are in college and she has a job just let her have some room and I guess get settled in what she is doing and she will most likely come back to you.

[tprphish]

broham im goin through the same shit. me and this girl has been talking the last year ( we never hooked up as bf/gf) but we felt the same way. then work and school got in the way. so it was her decision to go our seperate ways. so i obliged. i didnt call her for about a week, didnt text or anything like that. all of a sudden she says she misses me and she's interested again. but i already moved on. so im stuck between a rock and a bigger rock. cuz i really love3 this girl.

[99GPGTX]

this shit just sucks...like i havent felt like this since i found out my parents were getting divorced...

[Bossmaan]

hey man. The best thing for you is pretty much for megalo said. Just give her some space, and your self some space as well.. Get some positive out of the situation, atleast you guys didn't end on bad terms right? so that may or may not give you some hope for the future. Let her clear her head give some time, and clear your head as well. You don't wanna turn anything into a lil obession, where u keep wondering, and callin. Just chill out keep it cool and hope for the best bro. good luck

[99GPGTX]

thanks boss. ya we left in pretty good terms i think...well i changed her license plate (kinda weird). i gave her a hug and we kinda made out a lil bit so...idk i told her that i loved her again...(she said nothing) that really didnt feel good. but i guess she left in the best way possible.