Dude, leave that shit alone for awhile. I mean still be friends and what not, but get through your personal demons first. Get your head straight, then worry about the girlz. She has a shit ton of stuff goin on as well. I just think if you guys start tryin to start a relationship while all of this other stuff is goin on, it will not be successful. Your relationship needs to be built on a solid foundation, right now its on sand. You could do it, but you will have more trouble keepin it together. Know what i mean? Oh CONGRATS on the 2 yearz sober......keep it up.
PM me if you have any other concerns.