I completely understand and you are very much more mature than me because i have a very very short fuse. I dont mind giving him a little stuff here or there and i usually do but i should have mentioned that i use the term friend very loosely, he is in a few classes and i talk to him about chicks and stuff. I charge him because he would have paid 60 something to have another place do it and this way i taught him a few things so in my mind im helping out and getting a tank of gas out of the deal win, win.
I love your input if i was a little older and was more experiences i think i would have the same views as you, or at least i would hope so.