FiBTLforlife Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 well I just got off the phone with my dad, it seems here lately we cant have a talk on the phone without him being an ass to me in some way. He asked me how my new job was going and all and I told him fine just get payed little more but do as much. He said well thats good and went straight into saying, so are you saving all your moeny? I said well yeah, I put a good bit to the side each month like i always do on etrade and i spend the rest on food, gas, and mayble a little something in audio. He goes on to tell me well what does that mean, you need to be saving all of it and not spend any of it and that HE KNOWS THINGS THAT I DONT KNOW RIGHT NOW. I'm thinking to myself what the fuck do you know that i dont right now? other then the fact that he goes out and buys a entertainment center for over $300, and spending money on stupid shit for my sisters dance studio (that is a long story, but to make it short they got her a dance studio after she dropped out of college for 5 years. boy if only its that easy for all of us) So if anyone needs to save money its him not me. I do save my money and im prob the best at it in my family, but i have no clue why hes telling me this. it seems hes been on this subject ever since i got my own job about 4 years ago. and he always goes well you dont know if you are going to get enough for your school loan. well if thats the case then ill have to skip a year and work full time to save up. its almost like he's saying well im not gone pay a dime for your school so you better save save save and drop all 10k in one year for classes. after all, he did pay for everying for my sister, got her 3 cars, gave her money every month for food, gas, ect. IM not looking for a handout, but sometimes the mental shit just gets on my nerves. the thing im worried about is if for some reason I dont get the loan for my school, and my dad goes and payes for my sisters dance studio instead of trying to help me out. I hope to god that dont happen. (the dance studio is a joke, shes 10k in debt from it, is breaking even every month, but they play it off like its the biggest thing. I have no support in it and have only been there once. The fact that my dad would open it up for her after she dropped out of college just made me want to scream bc she gets what she wants all the time. i think my story is over, damn 2 AQ 10'' HDC3 copper subs 1 3500d AQ amp 146.3db on TL with stock electrical in single cab truck at 32hz RESULT: 1st place at comp, 3rd overall out of 20 cars
00_XJ Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 Do you still live with them? 2000 Jeep Cherokee -DC Audio -Memphis -Audioque -SecondSkin -Pioneer -KnuKonceptz
FiBTLforlife Posted December 7, 2009 Author Report Posted December 7, 2009 Do you still live with them? im moving out after this summer with my fience and just putting up with the bull shit till then mostly. i dont have much to pay, my truck is payed off and my insurance is low. my dad is just really bad with mental games with me, if anyone knows what i mean. sometimes that can be the worse i think. I got 3 subwoofers on order and im having them delivered to my fience's house lmao, next time he sees me he will see where my money goes. and i bet i have more money in saving then any of them combined 2 AQ 10'' HDC3 copper subs 1 3500d AQ amp 146.3db on TL with stock electrical in single cab truck at 32hz RESULT: 1st place at comp, 3rd overall out of 20 cars
Blackedout Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 Stressin' too hard bro! Relax, he's just trying to look out for your best interest but doesn't know how to do it right. Sounds like you're your own man. Fiance and all, do your thing bro. Good luck Trunk Build Log
99vic Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 my dad is just really bad with mental games with me, if anyone knows what i mean. sometimes that can be the worse i think.damn sorry your going through this .but i know what your going through. my dad has always been mentally abusive to me. this christmas will be a year sense i finally said fuck it im not doing it anymore. i bent over backwards to please my dad. and still got treated like shit. it hurts me to not talk to him, but its better for me to just stay away. anyway man good luck. all i can say is try your hardest to over look it, do it on your own, you will feel much better in the long run. REST IN PARADISE BIG RICH (Sqmonte) never forgotten Why do you guys ALWAYS dispute on NUMBERS????? It's such a played out argument, so fucking annoying.... It's 12 fuckin 15's.... It's louder than you... Shut the fuck up... /Rant I'm so jealous, it makes me want to club baby seals. That shit gets down HARD!dont buy from knowledge he will scam you. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/30995-official-knowledge-feedback/
iTech Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 Damn that sucks, Makes me appreciate my parents soooooo much, ya'll don't even know. My Official Feedback Thread PSN - tech2332 Games for PS3: Killzone 2, BattleField: Bad Company 2! Add me to play either!
Andrew2944r Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 Dude I am 34 with a family of my own and my Dad still calls to make sure im not buying or wasting money, lmao get used to it. He always says you could have your house paid for with all the audio you buy, lol. Its what some or most Dads do. Team Ampere Audio
skittlesRgood Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 maybe thats what "you dont know" is that he spent all his money on your sister and there is nothing left for you. me dad and i are the same way, we get in fights over nothing. i know i wont give a shit if i never talk to him again after i move out. you're not the only one in this boat man. if that makes you feel any better. just learn from it and know what not to do when you have kids. dont turn into the same ass hole. If I answered you in a well mannered, informative way, you asked a good question or had a good attitude. If I was an asshole, you asked a stupid question or you had a fucktard attitude... or I was in a bad mood. Team BassickHU: Pioneer AVIC Z110Front: Peerless SLS 6.5", Peerless HDS 4", Rainbow tweeter - running activeAmp: JL HD600/4 and DC 4 channel (bridged to midbass)Processor: JBL MS-8Subs: 2x 12" AA MayhemsAmp: DC 3kElectrical: DC power 270xp alt. 1/0 big 4. XSpower D3400 and six D680s. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/121795-29-update-the-buick-is-getting-a-rebuild/ Top career scores: DBdrag 151.7 MECA SQ 82.25My SOTM build Yeah. im pretty sure they dont warranty retarded people.
99vic Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 just learn from it and know what not to do when you have kids. dont turn into the same ass hole. exactly what i did. id hate to put my kids through the pain i went through. REST IN PARADISE BIG RICH (Sqmonte) never forgotten Why do you guys ALWAYS dispute on NUMBERS????? It's such a played out argument, so fucking annoying.... It's 12 fuckin 15's.... It's louder than you... Shut the fuck up... /Rant I'm so jealous, it makes me want to club baby seals. That shit gets down HARD!dont buy from knowledge he will scam you. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/30995-official-knowledge-feedback/
skittlesRgood Posted December 7, 2009 Report Posted December 7, 2009 exactly what i did. id hate to put my kids through the pain i went through. me too man... me too. If I answered you in a well mannered, informative way, you asked a good question or had a good attitude. If I was an asshole, you asked a stupid question or you had a fucktard attitude... or I was in a bad mood. Team BassickHU: Pioneer AVIC Z110Front: Peerless SLS 6.5", Peerless HDS 4", Rainbow tweeter - running activeAmp: JL HD600/4 and DC 4 channel (bridged to midbass)Processor: JBL MS-8Subs: 2x 12" AA MayhemsAmp: DC 3kElectrical: DC power 270xp alt. 1/0 big 4. XSpower D3400 and six D680s. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/121795-29-update-the-buick-is-getting-a-rebuild/ Top career scores: DBdrag 151.7 MECA SQ 82.25My SOTM build Yeah. im pretty sure they dont warranty retarded people.
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