HERES THE SUMUP
fedex is bullshit. i worked for a construction company (i wasnt a builder, i worked at the "headquarters") and the boxes were ALWAYS beat to hell. stuff had to be sent back ALOT, and about 15% of all of it was broken.
UPS, now they are the best. they are always on time, and stuff generally isnt even nicked from them. i trust them more than anyone.
DHL. they're good. they are the slowest and DEF not the best, but they are pretty good.
ALL IN ALL, use UPS. i use brown all the time. :|