DUBIE Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 well guys right now im kinda sad,worried and deprest..to start with my girl is trying to kill her self because 3 weeks ago her favorite sis past away..R.I.P...i been there for her and everything but the last time i saw her was 1week ago..but the only problem is that her mom has a ATTITUDE!!...she dont like me or her friends going over to her house...i tryed my best to be with her and trying to cheer her up...but sometimes it works but then her mom has to fuck it up..she puts her to work on the house like chores and etc...or everytime she aint buzy and if i call her or go over her mom puts her to do something even if she already did it...i hope you guys know what i mean. and well she hasnt gone to school since friday..and today she finaly went back...but those days that she hasnt gone to school she been drinking alot of pills trying to kill her self...what should i do?..should i take her somewere to get counseling,or anywere that might help her?..help me out here guys..im going crazy right now...i really care for her and i dont wanna loose her...she means everything to me....please reply A.S.A.P.. Quote
qu1cks1lver56 Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 damn man. idk know what to even tell you. except sorry to hear and hope all goes well with her Quote First Gen Xterra: Always changing DNX 690HD RF 360.3RF T3002RF T4004RF T10001bdSilver Flute 6.5"s Tang Band 1" TweetersSundown X18 in 7cubes net tuned to 32hz Trust me .25 Blows your Load.
*1LOWSUV* Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 Talk to a Counselor at school that maybe able to get her some help before its too late. People deal with grief in different ways but Mom seems pretty selfish in that she just lost one Daughter and is forcing the other into depression. Good Luck. : Quote [email protected]
RamenNoodles Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 You might just have to bit the bullet and tell the mom to go fuck herself. Her mom might this she is doing the right thing by giving her chores to keep her mind off of things and keeping her in the house but she isnt. You need to get her out of the house and let the girl have some fun. Anything that will bring a smile to her face. Get her some flowers and a card and virtually spill your heart to the girl. She will see she has something to live for and people really do care for her. Quote Diablo Audio Technologies Fi Car Audio Ascendant Audio
DUBIE Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Posted September 18, 2008 ..!!thanks everybody!!..thanks for everything!! Quote
mbdblue Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 You might just have to bit the bullet and tell the mom to go fuck herself. Her mom might this she is doing the right thing by giving her chores to keep her mind off of things and keeping her in the house but she isnt. You need to get her out of the house and let the girl have some fun. Anything that will bring a smile to her face. Get her some flowers and a card and virtually spill your heart to the girl. She will see she has something to live for and people really do care for her. Ill agree with that. gotta get her outta there man....her moms not helping. but be careful....you dont want to push it too far and have her mom start gettin cops involved and shit. then your just upsetting an already fucked up situation....another idea is to go directly to her mom. Tell her what your trying to do, and hopefully you can reason with her. nevathaless, good luck man. Quote AA-Atomic-Clif Designs-DC-Diamond-Digital Designs-Directed-Eclipse-Fi-Hertz-Hifonics-Kenwood-Memphis-Phoenix Gold-Pioneer-PPI-PSi-Stinger-Sundown-TC Sounds-Viper-Zapco
DUBIE Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Posted September 18, 2008 Ill agree with that. gotta get her outta there man....her moms not helping. but be careful....you dont want to push it too far and have her mom start gettin cops involved and shit. then your just upsetting an already fucked up situation....another idea is to go directly to her mom. Tell her what your trying to do, and hopefully you can reason with her. nevathaless, good luck man. but ok guys..theres 1 lil problem...her mom is fukd up as hell...even if you wanna talk to her atleast to say wuz up or something...she ignores you...shes a BITCH!!...and i know i shouldnt be saying this but its true...thats the thing..i tryed talking to her but she trips out on me...and yeah i know i should not take it too far because the cops might get involved with it...thats true...thoug..but about the mom part thats the problem i have right now... Quote
Ipod Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 Talk to a Counselor at school that maybe able to get her some help before its too late. People deal with grief in different ways but Mom seems pretty selfish in that she just lost one Daughter and is forcing the other into depression. Good Luck. : x2. talk to a counselor and tell what is going... if something does happened, the mom will be charged. but ok guys..theres 1 lil problem...her mom is fukd up as hell...even if you wanna talk to her atleast to say wuz up or something...she ignores you...shes a BITCH!!...and i know i shouldnt be saying this but its true...thats the thing..i tryed talking to her but she trips out on me...and yeah i know i should not take it too far because the cops might get involved with it...thats true...thoug..but about the mom part thats the problem i have right now... i know how that feels... sometimes you do what you gotta do to help a loved one. i mean if you have to, talk to your parents first then bring her over and let her stay with for a few days or how ever long it need.. sorry to hear.. hope everything will turn out find.. just remember keep your head up high and fuck what the bitch (mom) say.. like i said, do what you gotta do to help her out.. best of luck man! keep us updated. Quote Hustle hard, Stack paper, It's alright, ya'll haters, It's nothing, We major, You see me, Hi Hater! =) ~ Manio
finkster Posted September 18, 2008 Report Posted September 18, 2008 Hi there... Ive had many problems in my fam growing up, however a death wasnt one of them... But on the suicidal issue, she needs help ASAP...U need to be there for her and quick. She needs to know that she is special, and it sounds to me that you're the only person that can do this right now...Take her somewhere, a movie, ne where to get her out of that house because..to her right now the house is symbolizing something negative in her mind..the death, the chores, and the mom...she needs to get away from there...everybody has their problems...good luck bro Fink Quote DAT 4125------>RE XXX comps active Eclipse cd7000 I serve drunks for a living
DUBIE Posted September 18, 2008 Author Report Posted September 18, 2008 ima try doing that man...ill keep you guys in touch...by the way thanks again!..you guys are the best!.. Quote
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