RobClay Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 I say fuck her dude. Worry about your son, he's someone who will always love you no matter what. agreed 100% ive been through this man, it will be REAL hard getting over her and i mean it will be the hardest thing youll ever have to do in your life. it took me almost 2 years to forget about my X. and sometimes i still think about her. but going through all this will just make you stronger, and ive learned from experience. and it taught me that i dont need no girl in my life right now.. ive done fine without them. ive got the rest of my life to worry about having a wife and stuff. Its gonna be hard to do, but just tell her that you dont want to have anything to do with her anymore, delete eachothers numbers out of your phones and everything. its worked fine for me. and she still tries texting me sometimes. 2 SSA Xcon 18's Sundown 2500D Pioneer 4 Stinger SPV35 batts SecondSkin Audio Damp Pro Knukonceptz Flex[/size][/b]
buddlydudly8989 Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 man sounds like you have been threw alot.......just take some time to relax. . . sometimes loving someone means you have to let the person go. well hope all is well for you and your kids.
Godsmack Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 Dude lemme put it like this.............with what one kid costs u could buy a used BTL every mth or a 3000 every 2 mths J "No poor dumb bastard ever won a war by dying for his country. He did it by making the other poor dumb bastard for his country." George Patton
Q_Rolls_Jimmy Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 Dude I would just say you can do a lot better and deserve better. I mean its unfair and stupid that a dumb girl would not only ruin it for you and her but for her son. If she had a good head on her shoulder it would have never happened. Also for the fact you said it was your "friend" sounds like hes not much of a friend either. Like FI said wait it out chances are she'll come around once she realizes everything. Atleast you have a beautiful child that wont ever fuck you ever like that. Just keep your focus on him and don't trip on her. Honestly sometimes I wish I could have a kid then let the bitch split cause it's almost guaranteed they WILL fuck you over some way or another. I wish you the best of luck man and I hope you don't end up with another girl thats gonna do the same shit. It's SUPER fuckin hard to find a girl thats faithful and doesn't lie. Just hold your head high. R.I.P. SONOMA I WILL FIND WHO STRIPPED MY BABY!
pmpnu2 Posted December 10, 2008 Author Report Posted December 10, 2008 thanks everyone for the great advice and comments. i do appreciate all of it. it has helped out alot. i actually feel alot better than i did this morning. i talked to a buddy of mine about it and he gave me some great advice too. i ended up going and getting my daughter and took her shopping and out for dinner. i wanted my son too but his mom wouldnt let me have him. anyhow ive talked to her thoughout the day and basically told her that if she was sincerely sorry and wanted to try and work things out then great, but if not then i would find some1 else that would care about me. so long story short im doing good for now, but please keep the advice coming. i still may need it. thanks again guys 2001 chevy blazer xtreme my blazer xtreme build On top of all that, my little sister is marrying a real fuckin winner tomorrow I've gotten that much wood just viewing this thread.
Q_Rolls_Jimmy Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 thanks everyone for the great advice and comments. i do appreciate all of it. it has helped out alot. i actually feel alot better than i did this morning. i talked to a buddy of mine about it and he gave me some great advice too. i ended up going and getting my daughter and took her shopping and out for dinner. i wanted my son too but his mom wouldnt let me have him. anyhow ive talked to her thoughout the day and basically told her that if she was sincerely sorry and wanted to try and work things out then great, but if not then i would find some1 else that would care about me. so long story short im doing good for now, but please keep the advice coming. i still may need it. thanks again guys I really hope things work out the best for you man! The hardest thing about attempting to work it out is the most of the time we can't let go or at least I couldn't. Like you can't actually forgive her. I would just give it to her straight try to put those thoughts in her head how this is her child and her life and she will end up wishing for everything she had before once its gone, just like everybody always does. GOOD LUCK! R.I.P. SONOMA I WILL FIND WHO STRIPPED MY BABY!
pmpnu2 Posted December 10, 2008 Author Report Posted December 10, 2008 I really hope things work out the best for you man! The hardest thing about attempting to work it out is the most of the time we can't let go or at least I couldn't. Like you can't actually forgive her. I would just give it to her straight try to put those thoughts in her head how this is her child and her life and she will end up wishing for everything she had before once its gone, just like everybody always does. GOOD LUCK! thanks man, im just gonna focus on my kids and gettin my beat put in my car. those are the most important things in my life right now. if she wants to be in my life she knows what she needs to do. and if she dont f**k her, ill find somebody else. thanks for the comment bro 2001 chevy blazer xtreme my blazer xtreme build On top of all that, my little sister is marrying a real fuckin winner tomorrow I've gotten that much wood just viewing this thread.
dwright27 Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 i9 honestly think this is wayyyyy past the point of working it out. at least it would be for me .... she would be http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/public/style_emoticons/default/ban.gif and id put one of these in her car just kidding about the , but she would be gone for real. 2006 F-150 4 DC XL M2 18's Walled Daily Driver XS Power 4 DC 3.5kw Team DC Team S.P.L. Lot of Audio Technix and 1/0 DC Audio Dealer American Bass Dealer XS Power Dealer Audio Technix Dealer
Coolwazabi Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 sorry to hear bro.. i'm tearing up just reading all that bad luck that happened to a guy that seem nice and yet treated like shit... just to think if my girl would do something like that.. i'd be in total fucking hell.. she was my first love and i was her's *so she told me:D*.. i have trust issues so i worry about her 150% of the day and it worries me cause she's real outgoing and friendly to everyone and has tons of "dude" friends... just to me its weird since i have 1 lady friend "her" and thats it... and just to know that someone else has a crush on her makes me go incredible hulk.. wanting to be the fuck outta him.. BUT !!!!!!! sorry man.. no advice from me since i've never walked a mile in your shoes.. just wish you the best of luck and hope you can work it out for the best of you.. and your boy
dwright27 Posted December 10, 2008 Report Posted December 10, 2008 sorry to hear bro.. i'm tearing up just reading all that bad luck that happened to a guy that seem nice and yet treated like shit... just to think if my girl would do something like that.. i'd be in total fucking hell.. she was my first love and i was her's *so she told me:D*.. i have trust issues so i worry about her 150% of the day and it worries me cause she's real outgoing and friendly to everyone and has tons of "dude" friends... just to me its weird since i have 1 lady friend "her" and thats it... and just to know that someone else has a crush on her makes me go incredible hulk.. wanting to be the fuck outta him.. BUT !!!!!!! sorry man.. no advice from me since i've never walked a mile in your shoes.. just wish you the best of luck and hope you can work it out for the best of you.. and your boy boy do i know this scenario. she has tons of dude friends but its wrong for yu to talk to any other girl but her ...... 2006 F-150 4 DC XL M2 18's Walled Daily Driver XS Power 4 DC 3.5kw Team DC Team S.P.L. Lot of Audio Technix and 1/0 DC Audio Dealer American Bass Dealer XS Power Dealer Audio Technix Dealer
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