dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 her baby daddy and her wer together for 3 years and she finally lefft him because of the shit he kept putting her through and a few months after she left him i met her and we eventually got married and its been a while and now her babby daddy wants to come back in the picture and my wife is having thoughts about us and she feels like they should be together because the little girl is only 2 and she thinks thats how it should go both parents together but she also tells me she doesnt want to hurt me we both love each other and we want it to work out but she wants whats best for the girl..what should i do ?.im asking for everyones prayers that we can work it out Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n8ball2013 Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 He can be a father and not be with her. They obviously had issues. IF she is happy with you she needs to realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. Does he pay child support? Do you care for that child as your own? ITs pretty shallow that you can run off for a few yrs and suddenly think you are allowed to get back into the baby's life. Quote THERE IS NO BUILD LOG! 1998 Chevy Silverado ext cab Alpine CDA-9887 4 Team Fi 15s 2 Ampere Audio TFE 8.0 2 Ampere Audio 150.4 3 Digital Designs CS6.5 component sets Dual Mechman 370XP Elite alternators inbound! 8 XS Power d3400 6 XS power d680 Second Skin Stinger Tsunami Wiring Sky High A Real Voltmeter not a piece of shit stinger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 He can be a father and not be with her. They obviously had issues. IF she is happy with you she needs to realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. Does he pay child support? Do you care for that child as your own? ITs pretty shallow that you can run off for a few yrs and suddenly think you are allowed to get back into the baby's life. He just started paying..i love her as my own and he mad cuz she calls me daddy Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loudcav Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 if you treat her like your own then the little girl dosent know the diffrence she is young enough that her biological dad could get lost and you replace him and she wouldnt know the diffrence Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 if you treat her like your own then the little girl dosent know the diffrence she is young enough that her biological dad could get lost and you replace him and she wouldnt know the diffrence now he wants to see her everyday . Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loudcav Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 now he wants to see her everyday . Im sure thats only because he just started having to pay up Im sure if you offered to adopt her he would leave again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 Im sure thats only because he just started having to pay up Im sure if you offered to adopt her he would leave again well he tell n my wife that he wants her in his life and hes not gunna let anything stop him Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ipod Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 He can be a father and not be with her. They obviously had issues. IF she is happy with you she needs to realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. Does he pay child support? Do you care for that child as your own? ITs pretty shallow that you can run off for a few yrs and suddenly think you are allowed to get back into the baby's life. x2.. she fucked up for doing that.. from my experiences, you gotta make them think. make them realized what they have and had.. it sucks but some time you gotta smack (not literally) in the head.. He just started paying..i love her as my own and he mad cuz she calls me daddy key works "child-support".. hes not trying to pay that shit, so he is buttering her up so she'll get back with him.. Quote Hustle hard, Stack paper, It's alright, ya'll haters, It's nothing, We major, You see me, Hi Hater! =) ~ Manio Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 x2.. she fucked up for doing that.. from my experiences, you gotta make them think. make them realized what they have and had.. it sucks but some time you gotta smack (not literally) in the head.. yea im just gunna keep my head up and keep praying key works "child-support".. hes not trying to pay that shit, so he is buttering her up so she'll get back with him.. Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepsplJeep Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 If she is calling you daddy then she has already shifted to you as her father figure. It would not be good for her to switch to another guy that she doesnt look at as her father, father or not. Quote 98 Jeep Wrangler 33x13.50 super swamper LTB's Memphis M3 15" Memphis MCD1000 Optima yellowtop D34/78 Bass Race 129.9 (LBZ Duramax in the future) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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