gotta vent

[cqtama]

sorry guys i dont usually post topics like this, im normally all about the audio but.... i have to vent right now.

this is a long one:

so anyway, me and my girl have been together for 2 years now so i know she has nothing to do with this besides the fact that shes the victim. some f*@#in creeper from her college is sayin some messed up stuff on facebook. it started out harmless enough added her because she thought she might know him from class or whatever, he says hey your cute are you single in a measage, she says no sorry i have a boyfriend im not interested. nice enough but denied. so he starts posting all sorts of messed up crap on his status. "come here little girl" "tomorows the day i get what i want" "cant wait to tell that little bitch her big mistake tomorow" not directed at anyone but it makes you think. then she gets all sorts or personal measages. your ugly, you made a huge mistake, what the hell is wrong with you. i cleaned it up for the sake of the kids here. and hour later she gets "im sorry that was mean, wanna go out?"

heres where it gets interesting. it says i went to high school with him and he graduated with me 2 years ago, now i had a graduating class of over 500 so im not sure if i know him but i cant help but think i heard the name. and he lives about 10 minutes from me. im doing some research now and im ready to kill this kid. what would guys do?

link to his facebook if you guys want to have some fun. i didnt send you though

http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=100000862564630&ref=ts

[IH8PunkRok]

if it was me id go to the cops and report him for harassment then just block him.

nothing he can do over the internet.

if he shows up in person though... thats your own discretion.

however valiant your attempts to protect your girl (which i highly respect) you can and will go to jail if there is physical fights. so try and keep that out of your mind

as of right now though it doesnt seem to serious. just a dumbass bein a dumbass.

[styleone]

sorry guys i dont usually post topics like this, im normally all about the audio but.... i have to vent right now.

this is a long one:

so anyway, me and my girl have been together for 2 years now so i know she has nothing to do with this besides the fact that shes the victim. some f*@#in creeper from her college is sayin some messed up stuff on facebook. it started out harmless enough added her because she thought she might know him from class or whatever, he says hey your cute are you single in a measage, she says no sorry i have a boyfriend im not interested. nice enough but denied. so he starts posting all sorts of messed up crap on his status. "come here little girl" "tomorows the day i get what i want" "cant wait to tell that little bitch her big mistake tomorow" not directed at anyone but it makes you think. then she gets all sorts or personal measages. your ugly, you made a huge mistake, what the hell is wrong with you. i cleaned it up for the sake of the kids here. and hour later she gets "im sorry that was mean, wanna go out?"

heres where it gets interesting. it says i went to high school with him and he graduated with me 2 years ago, now i had a graduating class of over 500 so im not sure if i know him but i cant help but think i heard the name. and he lives about 10 minutes from me. im doing some research now and im ready to kill this kid. what would guys do?

link to his facebook if you guys want to have some fun. i didnt send you though

http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=100000862564630&ref=ts

I would personally message him on facebook, being mature in nature about the issue and stating I do not like such comments directed at my girlfriend and that he needs to stop, remove her from his profile and not contact her at school. If he is able to take that with out retorting back in a nasty manor then make sure that your girl is with people at school and is aware of her suroundings. Lots of people have big big mouths online and would wet there pants to think of saying such offline.

If he comes back to you, and is like raging... I would find out where he lives, and then send him a message with his address, color of house he lives in aswell as the color of his naighbors houses on ether sides of him, color and make of cars in the drive way aswell as the colors and make of cars in the nextdoor driveways to his, and what his mailbox looks like.

All colleges have security, makes sure that she has them walk her to and from her car, she is not alone walking around campus and see if he stops messaging her. If not your discression from there.. Thats just my two cents.

[BASS14]

me personally, my anger probs would get the best of me there. like already said id end up in jail lol.

thats one thing i dont put up with messing with the GF or the family, those are the two things where i go into idc bout nothing mode and would for sure end up in jail.

but like said. just try to message him and see wat he says, be cool tho and just see where it goes.

[cqtama]

this is why i love this forum. you guys are awesome

if it was me id go to the cops and report him for harassment then just block him.

nothing he can do over the internet.

if he shows up in person though... thats your own discretion.

however valiant your attempts to protect your girl (which i highly respect) you can and will go to jail if there is physical fights. so try and keep that out of your mind

as of right now though it doesnt seem to serious. just a dumbass bein a dumbass.

this is what i was thinking but getting this through her head isnt the easiest. she blocked him, the thing that has us on edge is that he goes to school with her. if this presists i will notify the police. as for being alone on campus she normally isnt she always has people around her and she can fight. i met her at a martial arts dojo i work at and im an amature kickboxer and trust me i tought her well.

and sty, as much as a love your idea and its very possible; i believe i can find his adress very easily i feel like punkrok is right and even something that small could still get me screwed

[cqtama]

me personally, my anger probs would get the best of me there. like already said id end up in jail lol.

thats one thing i dont put up with messing with the GF or the family, those are the two things where i go into idc bout nothing mode and would for sure end up in jail.

but like said. just try to message him and see wat he says, be cool tho and just see where it goes.

yea me too but gimme 5 minute and i can usually cool down and think a little smarter, thats why im asking you guys what you think

[Maxim]

Lol, you just gave me entertainment for the next 2 months by posting a link to his profile in there.

Also, message the guy like styleone said. Be mature about it, don't act like you're e-raging. No swears, no threats, just tell him to kindly back the fuck off. Actually you can swear. It gets the point across better. Have your girlfriend de-friend him and block him from viewing her profile all together (under Privacy settings). You can either confront him about it or ignore him. I suggest doing the message first and then doing the ignore/block part if he doesn't leave her alone.

[styleone]

Yes it can get to that point. But like others have stated, family and the ladys do come first. WIth that due to the lack of internet laws its hard to get cops to do much about online stalking and such. But as stated, do what you feel is right. I would though sugjest the security optionn I threw out there beings that would keep her safe as can be at school.

[cqtama]

Lol, you just gave me entertainment for the next 2 months by posting a link to his profile in there.

Also, message the guy like styleone said. Be mature about it, don't act like you're e-raging. No swears, no threats, just tell him to kindly back the fuck off. Actually you can swear. It gets the point across better. Have your girlfriend de-friend him and block him from viewing her profile all together (under Privacy settings). You can either confront him about it or ignore him. I suggest doing the message first and then doing the ignore/block part if he doesn't leave her alone.

glad your gunna enjoy that link. he is curently blocked under her profile but i friended him to do some spying, i dont think he realises who i am. if it continues past this week i am taking action weather she likes it or not. a nice email. no cursing and visible anger and ill see where it goes.

[cqtama]

im deciding that this is just an elaberate joke my girls got some balls though, he measaged her again and she said where do i know you from? you wanna meet somewhere trying to get him to give up some stupid info. and i said i think i went to high school with you who'd you hang out with, after that he disapeared like we got blocked, he came back said some more creapy shit, and then my girl said "leave me the F**k alone you FREAK im callin the cops." so he replied whatever it was fun whuile it lasted. and for the last time i didnt kiss him in the basement...

at this point we were both very confused and somewhat laughing at the same time. idk i have decided that this is all just a bad joke. feel free to bomb the facebook if it still exist though. link is up top