I have gotten to the point where I don't even try to explain I just tell them to sit in my car and listen haha.
its pretty frustrating to me like I spend all this time and people ask why its like an automatic defeat of all the time I spent.
I'm just going to start answering with "because I can, thats why" with a hella serious face
haha so I am guessing you are trying to put into words what Steve's system is like to co-workers, the wife and others?