well not knowing the whole story its pretty interesting. idk how the break up went nor do u i need to know (not my business). it seems she talks to her mom alot about relationship stuff. If she really told her mom that stuff. i say go to the little event and see whats up. i mean u say u wont take her back but EVERYONE does stupid shit from time to time. and if you say u haven't you are lying. so talking and getting everything out in the open wont hurt. maybe you will find out that was one of her stupid moments that we all have. never know