I'm not going to say that relationship in the service aren't hard but they can work. However, you said that you were going to break up with her. Her recruiter basically fucked both of yall. $3,000 a month. Dude I didn't make that much money until I made E-5. I wish you would've posted this before she took that jump. I've been in the Navy for 13 years (active duty) and recruited for 3 1/2 and I know how some recruiters can be. She may or may not cheat. Memp, you really can't say that man. All people in the military don't fuck around. I had a friend on my first ship and we did 2 deployments and this guy did not cheat on his wife. He was dedicated to his family and they are still together today with 3 kids living a wonderful life. All I can say bro is do you. You gotta do what you feel is best.