same problem. 4 yrs is a long time. but is (getting through it) going to make you happy. thats my problem. we got passed it"" and then it strted again. just look at it as, whats for the best. will she be happier?how will you? it just hurts my heart. idlk how you feel about it, but it sucks. if you try n work it out., dont let her change you. youll grow to despise her. trust me....i gave up hats til i moved here. only thing i love like my car n music, is my hats. fedoras man. didnt wer em for 3 years. then i got here n shes still in WA. she cnt make me not wer em here. im an 80s kid. i love the style. fedoras, vests. i dont dig the skinny jeans. bullet wound hair cut. n pants at my ankles.
\in all that rant, im just saying, be yourself. if she cant haandle it, its a bad match. thats where im at. i got years of this. i can relate if you need to talk. i am 3 hrs ahead a yall tho so it may take time to message back. you dont know me. im justin. you need to talk, ill talk man. i hope shit gets better for you