jojo42 Posted August 20, 2011 Author Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 naw, we moved cross country and we couldnt afford her depression meds and shes shut everyone out and just been a bitch No offense, I just chuckled when I read "we couldnt afford her..." and you have a 18" Fi BTL and respectable system lol. I would get my wife her needed meds before I built or kept a system. shrug i had my system built and done before we ever even got together, i offered mutiple times to do that and she persistantly says no, then says why get back on them because theyll fuck her up longer till they level her out and she doesnt want to do that, so at this point, i didnt do anything 2012 Ford Ranger: Build comming soon! Kenwood DNX-6160 DC 175.4 2 sets of O2 AR63 3-way Comps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmilch Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 If you have no kids with her fire her and start taking applications I've been through a ton of shit over the years, and this was best thing I ever did. I left a similar situation, and met the one I ended up marrying about a year later. Best choice I ever made. Pioneer AVH-P4300DVD | Hertz 6.5 | Alpine Type R 6x9 | Custom 200A Alt | Knu Flek 1/0 Big 3 and all wiring | Eclipse EA3422 | AudioQue 2200d | DC XL 12 | Red Oak Box ~2.8 cubes @ 30 hz | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisLun Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 What meds. Does she take I may be able to help. My wife also suffer from severe bi-polar and depression. And like yourself I got caught watching porn cause she went on a month long hiatus and when she found out she flipped. It too was considered cheating, I know it get rough and unbearable and we just want to at fuck it and walk away but remember when they are medicated they are good and it's not their fault, just the chemical imbalance. 2006 Dodge Charger (2) Kinetic 3800 (1) DC Power 270XP (4) T1-12D4 (1) T2500BDCP (2) T400.4 7.5 cubic ft. (2) 6 in ports thru the rear deck (2) T165.2 (2) T169.3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jojo42 Posted August 20, 2011 Author Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 she just takes celexa thats it. and has PTSD 2012 Ford Ranger: Build comming soon! Kenwood DNX-6160 DC 175.4 2 sets of O2 AR63 3-way Comps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisLun Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 Well as a person myself whom suffers from PTSD, severe depression, and severe paranioa ......Its does get hard. Some days we are good other days we are bad. My wife put up with me for 3 yrs. after coming home from my last combat tour and I was messed up. If you love your wife like you say you do than you stick it out, like the oath we took before GOD "For Better or For Worst" but don't be afraid to stand your ground and and give a ultimatum. but she is on a serious med and really needs to take it. The PTSD does it come from being in service? Or another experience.....if service connected then locate the local Veterans Affairs Hospital in your area. If not then I will try to see what I can come up with to help but hang in there......I coward way is to walk away, thats the easy part. 2006 Dodge Charger (2) Kinetic 3800 (1) DC Power 270XP (4) T1-12D4 (1) T2500BDCP (2) T400.4 7.5 cubic ft. (2) 6 in ports thru the rear deck (2) T165.2 (2) T169.3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red-navi-916 Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 PICTURE THIS GUY SAYING THIS If you’re unhappy with your relationship and looking for a way to make it better … If you’re looking for tools to help you to improve your communication … If stress, anxiety, or depression are taking over your life … Or if you spend so much time and energy taking care of everyone else that you’ve lost yourself … ======= … then you’ve come to the right place. I’m Steve McCready, a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and I’d like to help you … …take your ‘not so good’ relationship and make it great. SEE A COUNSELOR MAN U AND HERE T3OGETHER I KNOW A FEW PEOPLE THAT HAVE ACTUALLY WORKED IT OUT BUILDLOG http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/ind...showtopic=61862 "98crewcab"Never a POS....just always "a work in progress" lol that's how we roll bitches!!! Your a lowlife kid. I bet your mother wants to kill herself for not swallowing your ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jojo42 Posted August 20, 2011 Author Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 she suffers from PTSD from past problem(s), non war related, the thing gets me though is no matter what i try to do to work things out she shows absolutally no effort whatsoever to try to make things better or try to get herself or us help no matter what i do, all she does is cold shoulder then every time i want to talk shes like i dont wanna fight right now even though im not trying to start a fight nor do i have intentions of starting one. then anytime anyone talks about anything in the house it turns right into a pissing match of her throwing it in my face then i just walk away cuz im not gonna listen to her say i acutally cheated on her with another person when i did nothing of the sort, its just eatting me up and im tired of it. 2012 Ford Ranger: Build comming soon! Kenwood DNX-6160 DC 175.4 2 sets of O2 AR63 3-way Comps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bassrace Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 Do what makes you happy dude. It doesnt seem like its her that does. If youve tried everything to make it work then do what your mom and granny want and dip back to your old area. It might not be easy but its not worth being in a fucked up relationship b/c the other person is being a dickhead leave, run and dont look back. 145.9@40hz 145.3@34hz big 3 X2 group 34 Deka Group 31 All 0/1 awg jl meta wire Alpine CDA 7894 Orion HCCA D5000 2 AQ HDC312's Crunch gpv1100.2 (for 6.5"s only) AQ pro audio 6.5" - 3 sets AQ supertweeters - 2 sets 2000 Slamry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapaynem4 Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 File for divorce and move on. Lifes too short to be miserable. Kenwood KDC-BT33 Sundown Audio SAE-100.4 - 4 Crescendo Audio SC-650s Sundown Audio SCV-6000D @ (.5 ohm) - 2 DC Audio LVL5 M5 Elite 15s (d2) 6.45 ft Box ( Net ) tuned to 30 Hz - ( APM - 2 = 151.2 db ) 2004 Chevrolet Trailblazer LS 4WD Brand X 390 Alternator - XS Power PSC30 XS Power D3400 (front) - 3 XS Power D3100s (rear) Knukoncepts Kolossus Flex 1/0 - SMD Meters - SMD Fuse Holders Sky High Copper Battery Terminals - Amp Lab RPMC v2 SPL Cartel Bass Knob - Toolmaker Copper Amp Inputs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin M Posted August 20, 2011 Report Share Posted August 20, 2011 Loving your wife is great. Wanting to try to fix your relationship is great. You have to think about what you want and what you need though. I was in your shoes when I was 25. I had a longtime girlfriend who wouldn't stay med compliant. She was bipolar and had daddy issues. They used to fight physically. through that abuse she became abusive herself, and she would take it out on me. I started to spend less and less time at my own house and dreading getting off work. That was it. Id had enough. I moved out shortly after. Having a condition like this isn't fair and the meds make their minds clouded or numb their feelings but what is the alternative. I have to take meds for my heart to keep it beating normally. Its just something that has to be endured. Focusing on the good times is good and help sustain a relationship but eventually you'll have to look forward instead of always looking back. Your family seems supportive and are giving you the ability to have a fresh start. I would take it. In my experience ultimatums have a very short shelf life and have the unique talent of biting you on the ass. That's my .02 cents 2005 Ford Focus zx4 AMT's and Planars 18" Infinite baffle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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