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ok so hears the deal.....

my grandma ( who i live with) has dementia and i and all my family knows this except for her......

well because of certain events in my personal room i have installed a motion sensing camera in my room hooked up to my pc.....

well recently she knows ive been looking for my own place and so ive caught her on camera picking up and slamming my laptop on the desk its on in my room....i pay her rent and shes done this more than once.... this computer is tempermental in the way that it has gpu issues where ive had to replace the motherboard due to hp's lack of cooling...there was a class action lawsuit on it but anyways what would you guys do if it started fucking up....like recently and you believed it was due to the "slamming"

im really pissed and cant totally afford a place yet and if i say anything im almost positive she kick me out for my surveillance activity.

btw: this same grandma is like loaded (money wise) and she takes my change constantly, kicks my xbox (and kinect when it was BRAND new couple days old) talks shit about me and my girl on the phone to ppl when im not around while snooping in my room.....i dont get it

im at my wits end....if you guys only knew the frustration I/we go through with her

wut would you do?

i think there real i was looking through that guys stuff he sells and it looks like he finds stuff at auctions and just sells it

Yea, it looks like someone got the mids about a month ago....shit. If I had a whole Hertz front stage my ears would jizz all over my cheeks.

/ LOL

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gotta love gods creatures , probably get out of there and try to remember the good bro . in the mean time until you find someplace to move , i suppose damage control , hide you shit , or get a lock box or foot locker or something .

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Put the laptop under your mattress? Just hide your stuff till you can get your own place or see if another family member will take in you for a while. If she is this far along in her dementia then she needs to be in a place where she can get proper care. Sorry if that came across as cold, not my intention, Just trying to help.

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I don't care who you are, if your my own family and you sit there and destroy my stuff that I paid for, I want it fixed. Lawsuit or just be like, I know you did it, and I want you to fix it.

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Turned mine up today at a light, guy next to me his steering wheel started moving and he looked over at me like I was a magician lol.

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fuck the plating. look at what the main metal used is. you could buy unicorn blood plated terminals but if its just covering up dog shit, whats the point

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I'll admit, half way through sanding that fiberglass in the rain and cold while I was all itchy I was definitely starting to question why i was doing this haha

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seems kinda psycho, you need to confront her or gtfo

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I wouldn't know about dementia and all that, but I have to live wirh my grandma. She's just getting old and realizing that she is losing money and whatnot. Plus she got in, what I guess I would say minor car accident and she has gotten more angry at the world. She always tries to argue about everything and she is always negative. And she likes to talk shit too, all the time, its like she feeds off of negative things. So I sorta know where you come from. You know I really didn't mind my grandma when I saw her once every few weeks or so.

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/\ all of these ideas are great and you guys really make me feel better about my situation :)

i just found a place not to far from where i am now for $500 a month heat/hot water included....not in a bad section of town but still not in the best section either.

im gunna look into that because i can definitly afford that with my other current bills so we will see what happens.

she does need to be put into a home....but id feel horrible about it because she can drive....kinda lol and she definitly can take care of herself with no issues ..its just she gets mental sometimes.....she is nice as hell to my face but it could be 5 minutes after i leave and she will be in this room snooping and kickn shit..... i dont ANYTHING wrong to her believe me when i say that. in fact im her fix it guy....when somethings broke she calls me. or if she needs something done i do it.

i am trying to get out and i have been hiding my laptop under the mattress since the last incident in fact its under there now lol i have 2 computers in my room( desktop for video and downloads and such, the other for just lounging around the house)

but again thanks for the input guys! i appreciate it lol i actually feel a little better now knowing people have sorta the same issue as me.

thanks

i think there real i was looking through that guys stuff he sells and it looks like he finds stuff at auctions and just sells it

Yea, it looks like someone got the mids about a month ago....shit. If I had a whole Hertz front stage my ears would jizz all over my cheeks.

/ LOL

My Low Budget Build:

Green 1995 Subaru Legacy wagon 147k- $1K

headunit- pioneer premier deh-p650-$25

4 Lead acid batts. 1 up front and 3 in back- vented outside.- $50

4 vvme L11 10"s <- $30 shipped a piece

6 cu. ft box (after displacment) tuned to 32ish hz with 10 inch sonotube. -about $50 all together maybe a lil more

2 aspm 1300 strapped

Selenium 6"s in the front doors on headunit power- for now -$20

quantum tweets in door-for now -$10

boston acoustic 5 1/4 in rear doors- for now-Free

big 3

1/0 and 4awg throughout.

roof sound deadened (not peel n seal ftw)-free

on 80 amp alt (bench tested to put out 100 amps faithfully) <--?-$10 for test

about $430 for everything<----Not bad at all

still gotta add 3 way crossover, amp for front and rear door speakers and maybe eq

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Put the laptop under your mattress? Just hide your stuff till you can get your own place or see if another family member will take in you for a while. If she is this far along in her dementia then she needs to be in a place where she can get proper care. Sorry if that came across as cold, not my intention, Just trying to help.

/\ didnt come across as any bit of being cold.... i totally understand lol

i think there real i was looking through that guys stuff he sells and it looks like he finds stuff at auctions and just sells it

Yea, it looks like someone got the mids about a month ago....shit. If I had a whole Hertz front stage my ears would jizz all over my cheeks.

/ LOL

My Low Budget Build:

Green 1995 Subaru Legacy wagon 147k- $1K

headunit- pioneer premier deh-p650-$25

4 Lead acid batts. 1 up front and 3 in back- vented outside.- $50

4 vvme L11 10"s <- $30 shipped a piece

6 cu. ft box (after displacment) tuned to 32ish hz with 10 inch sonotube. -about $50 all together maybe a lil more

2 aspm 1300 strapped

Selenium 6"s in the front doors on headunit power- for now -$20

quantum tweets in door-for now -$10

boston acoustic 5 1/4 in rear doors- for now-Free

big 3

1/0 and 4awg throughout.

roof sound deadened (not peel n seal ftw)-free

on 80 amp alt (bench tested to put out 100 amps faithfully) <--?-$10 for test

about $430 for everything<----Not bad at all

still gotta add 3 way crossover, amp for front and rear door speakers and maybe eq

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