dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 im just gunna keep my head up and keep praying Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SQMonte Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 (edited) her baby daddy and her wer together for 3 years and she finally lefft him because of the shit he kept putting her through and a few months after she left him i met her and we eventually got married and its been a while and now her babby daddy wants to come back in the picture and my wife is having thoughts about us and she feels like they should be together because the little girl is only 2 and she thinks thats how it should go both parents together but she also tells me she doesnt want to hurt me we both love each other and we want it to work out but she wants whats best for the girl..what should i do ?.im asking for everyones prayers that we can work it outWow, that's a fucked situation. Sounds to me like you were a rebound relationship for her, but it also sounds like you haven't accepted her daughter as your own and that might factor in to it too. I say that cause you refer to her as "the little girl" and "the girl".....Sounds to me like she's going to get with dude either way it goes, either by breaking up with you and getting with him or by cheating on you. If she's told you that she thinks they should be together then you might just want to chalk it up as a loss and move on cause it sounds to me like her feelings are stronger for him than they are for you.And as for him wanting to see his daughter everyday, IMO, he wants to see your wife everyday is really what it is. Sounds like she's all for it and that should say it all because if your wife really was in love with you then she wouldn't go for that crap. Just cause you pay CS doesn't mean you can demand to see your child everyday. If she valued your marriage then she wouldn't allow this dude to come in out the blue and disrupt shit like this. She'd make him agree to some kind of visitation schedule and would make sure you were involved as much as possible anytime he was picking up or returning her. Unfortunately bro, sounds to me like this is something out of your control and no matter what you say or do she's gonna have the final say in if she stays or goes. Edited November 21, 2009 by SQMonte Quote Alpine CDA-117...Memphis 16-X03 CDT Audio SQA-4100...SEAS Prestige H1396...Crescendo MP-6 Soundstream Rubicon 1.2500d...Digital Designs 3512f Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ipod Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 Wow, that's a fucked situation. Sounds to me like you were a rebound relationship for her, but it also sounds like you haven't accepted her daughter as your own and that might factor in to it too. I say that cause you refer to her as "the little girl" and "the girl".....Sounds to me like she's going to get with dude either way it goes, either by breaking up with you and getting with him or by cheating on you. If she's told you that she thinks they should be together then you might just want to chalk it up as a loss and move on cause it sounds to me like her feelings are stronger for him than they are for you. speakin like a true OG... Quote Hustle hard, Stack paper, It's alright, ya'll haters, It's nothing, We major, You see me, Hi Hater! =) ~ Manio Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 im not gunna lose my wife i will do everything i can to keep her Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ipod Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 some time you cant win a fight that you already lost.. Quote Hustle hard, Stack paper, It's alright, ya'll haters, It's nothing, We major, You see me, Hi Hater! =) ~ Manio Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetSlappah Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 speakin like a true OG... x2 plus her even questioning that itll be better of with him then that obviously means she wants him i dont know the full situation or how much you love her but if a girl ever told me that i wouldve left her that second just my 2 cents Quote Refs-(b.f.) 99vic, WCA Rusty(x3) Nathan@XSPOWER, Ampjunkielikeme, Bread0710, AmiCreations (s.t.) REsLaPz, PandaGT(x2), Keiferacing, Juicemane (t.w.) Powski, Big gil[/center] Build Log http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/77726-sss-celica-dc-buildupdate-611-finished/ 2005 subi STi 380whp 355whp 17" gold bbs 5% tint all around w/sunglare strip JVC dvd double din Knuconceptz 4ga wiring XS Power! Big 3 8" SAv2 d2 1800 audiopipe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SQMonte Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 im not gunna lose my wife i will do everything i can to keep herWhy fight for someone not willing to fight for you? Quote Alpine CDA-117...Memphis 16-X03 CDT Audio SQA-4100...SEAS Prestige H1396...Crescendo MP-6 Soundstream Rubicon 1.2500d...Digital Designs 3512f Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dt64bulldog Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 x2plus her even questioning that itll be better of with him then that obviously means she wants him i dont know the full situation or how much you love her but if a girl ever told me that i wouldve left her that second just my 2 cents i was talking to my wife a little while ago .she says she wants to stay with me its just hard for her dealing with the situation Quote 2 18's Fi SSD All Options Dual 2 ohm Rockford Fosgate T20001 Bd 1/0 gauge Knukonceptz power wire Pioneer Touch Screen Navigation AVIC F700 13.62 cu ft box ..28 hz 250 amp alternator 2 kinetik 2000 batteries Xs Vcm Module Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ipod Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 (edited) its only hard if she makes it hard.. like monte said "If she valued your marriage then she wouldn't allow this dude to come in out the blue and disrupt shit like this. She'd make him agree to some kind of visitation schedule and would make sure you were involved as much as possible anytime he was picking up or returning her. Unfortunately bro, sounds to me like this is something out of your control and no matter what you say or do she's gonna have the final say in if she stays or goes." Edited November 21, 2009 by Ipod Quote Hustle hard, Stack paper, It's alright, ya'll haters, It's nothing, We major, You see me, Hi Hater! =) ~ Manio Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n8ball2013 Posted November 21, 2009 Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 unless he hit her and shes afraid of him. She could be doing it just out of fear. Quote THERE IS NO BUILD LOG! 1998 Chevy Silverado ext cab Alpine CDA-9887 4 Team Fi 15s 2 Ampere Audio TFE 8.0 2 Ampere Audio 150.4 3 Digital Designs CS6.5 component sets Dual Mechman 370XP Elite alternators inbound! 8 XS Power d3400 6 XS power d680 Second Skin Stinger Tsunami Wiring Sky High A Real Voltmeter not a piece of shit stinger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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