tristan560 Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 Ok well here it goes...monday my gf of about a year and a half ended it with me. It had been a rough couple weeks not getting to see each other much. And the time we got to spend with each other i was basically an asshole to her. Not knowingly doing it on purpose just things i did. In hindsight i see that and take FULL responsibility for it. So basically im on the verge of losing this girl forever and i dont want that at all. You take things for granted until...well theyre gone. At this point in time id literally do ANYTHING to get another chance with her. And right now i see time working against me as the more shes away from me the quicker she will get over me. I know her feelings for me are still there, shes just tired of the fights and not getting treated the way she deserves. I used to treat her like a damn princess but over time i really got away from doing things for her. Idk...kinda put my hobby before her alot. Right now she'll talk to me but not about "us". but she will not give me the time of day to spend some time with her. This week ive done lots of little sweet things for her to start with but im a little lost right now. I know you guys have had experiences like this so i need some help winning her back. I dont deserve to have her back but i would do anything... Any ideas? <u>99 Jimmy SLT 4WD</u> Systemless. <u>99 Grand Prix GTP</u> DC XL 12 on 1.5k tuned lowwwwww.
tristan560 Posted January 21, 2010 Author Report Posted January 21, 2010 Btw this isnt at 16year old's high school relationship im trying to save here. Its much more serious that that. <u>99 Jimmy SLT 4WD</u> Systemless. <u>99 Grand Prix GTP</u> DC XL 12 on 1.5k tuned lowwwwww.
AI James Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 lol at the second post.... you dont wanna hear this but just dont be a dick, give her time/space she'll either get over it and give you another chance if youve truely changed or she'll get back with you if that is really what she wants. if she dont wanna talk about yall theres 2 possibilities 1. theres another dude 2. she just dont wanna talk about that shit atm because its a bad subject.
MXmike800 Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 wow smd has taken a turn we should be called like maury or some shit now. dont be a dick, dick im not sayin im just sayin bro.
keepinitloud Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 well your in the dog house Id keep doin the little things that you are doin and see if she would like to maybe go out to dinner try not to talk about the breakup keep it light but you guys are goin to have to have a serious conversation about your relationship and if there is any future in it just give her a little air right now but let her know that you are very sorry for your digressions and a relationship is like flowers dont give them water and attention they die 06 chrysler 300C Hemi one mmatts dreadnaut 15 powered by a planet audio vx 2200d fosgate p200 running planet audio 8" midbass drivers and super compression tweeters stock battery and a stinger spv44 Irragi 300 amp alternator big 3 1/0 http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/55075-system-in-my-300c/page__view__findpost__p__763656__fromsearch__1
crazyfrazz09 Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 yeah i kinda noticed that the more you do for a chick right off the bat, they come to expect it all the time. dont get me wrong i treat my wife with the up most respect, but it seemed like before her the other chics always expected everything from me and then when i wanted to do something else or didnt do this or that they got all pissy. and if you did realize you fucked up then all you can do is keep trying to prove to her you are sorry and make things better. if she still wont accept then she has made up her mind before this incident and is moving on to something else. love can suck sometimes!!!! hope it works out for ya! 1998 jeep grand cherokee future teardown and rebuild: 2-15.4 orion hcca's sub amp undecided 2 sets of components 1-concept amp (mids/highs) undecided h.o. alt 2-yellow tops
tristan560 Posted January 21, 2010 Author Report Posted January 21, 2010 Thanks guys, yes i know seems real pathetic to come on here askin for advice but hell im willing to try anything. <u>99 Jimmy SLT 4WD</u> Systemless. <u>99 Grand Prix GTP</u> DC XL 12 on 1.5k tuned lowwwwww.
tristan560 Posted January 21, 2010 Author Report Posted January 21, 2010 Another thing...Ive told her id change over and over again. but it really has no bearing due to the fact she doesnt quite believe it. I just dont know how to prove to her that my word is my word and she can take it. If ya follow... <u>99 Jimmy SLT 4WD</u> Systemless. <u>99 Grand Prix GTP</u> DC XL 12 on 1.5k tuned lowwwwww.
n8ball2013 Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 dude when I was having wifey troubles I posted on here about it for advice. Iput it in 18 plus though so I didnt have a 15 yr old trying to school me on rea llife. THERE IS NO BUILD LOG! 1998 Chevy Silverado ext cab Alpine CDA-9887 4 Team Fi 15s 2 Ampere Audio TFE 8.0 2 Ampere Audio 150.4 3 Digital Designs CS6.5 component sets Dual Mechman 370XP Elite alternators inbound! 8 XS Power d3400 6 XS power d680 Second Skin Stinger Tsunami Wiring Sky High A Real Voltmeter not a piece of shit stinger.
z_ro Posted January 21, 2010 Report Posted January 21, 2010 27 and married for going on three years.. Make it up to her. Plain and simple. Buy her some roses and take her out to dinner. Open her door. Sit her before you, PAY FOR THE MEAL. and just take it slow. Unfortunately you fucked up by being a asshole to her... but we all have our moments. Just dont be an asshole and like you said... DO ANYTHING(that includes EVERYTHING) to get her back. just remember, there are no smart people in the world, only some less retarded than others wow shes hot too who is she? kim petras? wheres that from...i'd buss that open Bone stock 2015 Genesis Sedan RIP Civic
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