lending money?

[jake1993]

who on her whould lend money to there mom after she quit her job because she didnt like it? then she askes you for money to pay her credit card bills because she was stupid enough to quit her job and not have another to pay bills. ive given her around 300 (keep in mind thats alot to me with no real job) in the past 3 months and have yet to see a dime back.and still wants me to lend her more

[evermaxx]

You need a maybe option haha.

[jake1993]

You need a maybe option haha.

haha no maybes i need a yes or no

[skittlesRgood]

my mom, yes. but i know it would take a TON for my mom to ask me for money and i feel i would owe it to her. but not all moms are like mine. if my mom was untrustworthy or irresponsible... probably not.

[jake1993]

see thats my problem she said she would pay me when she got a job. she got one and still hasn't gave me anything. mine acts like EVERYONE is suppose to feel bad for her and give to her. u gotta watch how she asks to cause if she says can i have $20 and you give her $20 u wont get it cause she asked if she could HAVE it not barrow.

[cyoung1993]

has she made a effort to find a new job? or to pay u back at all? if she has not made a effort to find a new job, and get those bills paid, and also pay you back, no i would not lend her the money. if she was out every day dropping off resume's, and going for interviews, then yes maybe i would consider it.

[Socky]

Sounds like my aunt. Always asking for things and never had a real job. But if see will never pay you back i would most likely not do it. Depends on if see is actually trying to get a job to survive.

[30Hz.wav]

If it was my mom, I would probably just give it to her (Knowing she has borrowed lots in the past), but I wouldn't feel good about it... But it's my mom, I can't leave her stranded...

[jake1993]

she finally got one and its been about a month and i havent gotten anything not so much as a i will try to give you some next pay check. her effort to get a job was pathetic she applied at maybe 5 -8 places but over a months time. and i know there was way more places she could have applied that she did

[byers319]

if she was really looking hard for a job then yes, but if not its her own problem