SHEL Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 As said earlier, you must have and show respect for yourself. I know that "love" can make you tolerate some things that no one should have to. I have been there and done that. At the risk of sounding corny, I came out of the situation by finding Christ. I have not looked back since. Situations are not always great, but I am. Nothing can fully shake my faith, I have down days, but I am never out. Get to a place in your life, where you can see the intrinsic value in you. Find something you are good at and love to do. Find out where you can exercise your newfound love. Do it for free. Let people see that you love doing it. Be up front and honest about your past, do not let them find out by running a background check. Oh yeah, may I recommend prayer and patience. My prayers are with you, God Bless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprkn_ranger Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 ^well said brother! Check out my build log! 4 Havocs in a blowthrough http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/187506-sprkn-rangers-blowthrough-build/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MACnonsence6 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 thanks shel my pation is cars and audio not just car audio just in general i just cant find a job or dont know how to market that kinda thing around here I picked up an MTX Sw1212 powered subwoofer today. This thing sounds amazing. 130 watts, 12" woofer with a passive 12" woofer tuned to 27 hz. Moving the pictures on the walls and my girl got wet from the bass when i showed her haha. Tonight should be good haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MACnonsence6 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 http://www.homefacts.com/offender-detail/NY30310/Mitchel-Calkins.html kinda scared to do that but that is why im depresed and would rather die somedays then move forward that was at age 15 I picked up an MTX Sw1212 powered subwoofer today. This thing sounds amazing. 130 watts, 12" woofer with a passive 12" woofer tuned to 27 hz. Moving the pictures on the walls and my girl got wet from the bass when i showed her haha. Tonight should be good haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crunkjuice1 Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 you will pull through shit I have 2 felonies am 31 married three kids a newborn and another from my X that I pay for working at dairy queen. This will sound rough but forget that chick someone better will come along when the time is right if you keep at it things can get worse with her like her being pregnant and still be treating you like shit by seeing that baby as a big ass $$$ sign. but for now you need to focus on yourself and enjoy your family because in the end thats all you will ever have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crunkjuice1 Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 and quiting on life is for dumbasses chill out and stop thinking stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHEL Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 My friend, that is serious right there. Most people would not be willing to forgive you period point blank. I can tell you this without a shadow of a doubt, God will forgive you if you ask. That is the starting point. I will not sit here and tell you that the road to redemption is going to be easy. It is not easy for the average joe right now, but it has to start somewhere. I do not know the specifics of how everything happened, but if you and your girlfriend got into some kind of situation that landed you in your current situation, you went to jail two times because of it and you are still willing to stick by her side and she still mistreats you, that is a total lack of respect for you. If someone does not respect you and continues to trample on you with no remorse, you should really get out of there ASAP. Nothing good will come out of it right now. On a brighter, more joyful note, you are still alive and that means you have an opportunity to right your wrongs. I cannot say I know how. Keep your head up and stay positive. Before any change can start it must start within you. You must make a decision that you will not give up and quit trying. I am serious when I say that times get rough for us all, you are not alone. I own a business and I had a terrible week, but I press on. I cannot give up, my wife and kids depend on me, so now I must dig in deeper and continue to battle until I reach my goal. I used to get down on myself from time to time, to be honest, I still do on occasion, but my wife will not tolerate it and shuts me up quickly. That is the value of having someone in your life that builds you up and not tears you down. It gives you strength. Do not settle for less, when you deserve more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mtnbikecrazy55 Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 So you got a felony when you were 15 for possessing underage porn? Its bad, but not terrible, It not like you are 45 and had underage porn, because thats just fucked up... But honestly, Volunteer somewhere, so people can see that you are a good person, and to build a positive background, earn respect, and gain references. It may not make you money, but it will open the doors to oppurtunities down the road. Good luck man I hate long signatures.... ...what the fuck is wrong wiht you you fucking fuckity fuck fuck head... Mtnbikecrazy55 Feedback Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKidwell Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 So you got a felony when you were 15 for possessing underage porn? Its bad, but not terrible, It not like you are 45 and had underage porn, because thats just fucked up... But honestly, Volunteer somewhere, so people can see that you are a good person, and to build a positive background, earn respect, and gain references. It may not make you money, but it will open the doors to oppurtunities down the road. Good luck man Been talking with him via pm, he's not allowed to volunteer or do any community service because of his probation, which seems fucked up to me..why wouldn't the government want you to go help others? c'mon now, if i was shooting an 8 year old, it wouldnt be MY 8 year old. i recently got a Pyle PL1590BL and i was building an enclosure for it tuned to 25 hz. i didn't have any tools to cut a circle so i hit it with a big hammer. 2003 Infiniti G35 Sport Sedan Build in Progress Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
splmark Posted February 27, 2011 Report Share Posted February 27, 2011 I was kinda in the same boat you are, when I was 14 I used to drink just about everyday. I even used to get droped off at the bus stop drunk and go to school to sleep. When I was 18 I got arrested and was facing 98 years and. Because I had a vary good lawyer and they didn't have much to prove it was me alot got droped but it still shows on a back ground check. Now I'm getting married this year to someone I been with for 9 years I have a 4 year old and one on the way. This week I'm talking to my lawyer to have everything taking off my record, if u have a pbj state docket or anything like that u can get it taking off. If there is a giltey plea then u haveto Wright the judge or go back to court and he can change it. I got my GED and I'm going to collage for electrical and I'm making 39 an hour. I have done electrical work in NASA, dod/nsa, collages, and even capital hill. In time things will get better u have have to put in effert take classes, join programs what ever it takes to show your trying to better your self and things will work out for u. I wish I didn't do 90% of the things I did when I was younger and I payed for it. Just keep your head up and things will get better. http://www.termpro.com/dbdrag/memberalbum/34416a0.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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