i live in a house full of lazy ass ppl

[jmilch]

ya think its really that easy? all i have to do is go out and get another job. gee why didn't i think of that? oh wait i did. I've been filling out apps all over the place and followed up on a couple. Still nothing. also about school, i found the papers for it and started to fill them out. but came across a problem. the course they had me marked down for was the wrong one. they had me down to take a motorcycle mechanics class, when i had said i was interested in automotive tech. now i suggest we drop this.

You sound like you always have an excuse. You could always have accomplished but damn something went wrong. Don't bite the hand that feeds. If you could afford to feed, shelter and live on your own you would. You'd be in the street if they didnt help you out.

Ever thought about a room mate? Getting a gf? Doing something other than complaining about your grandparents?

[FiBTLforlife]

ok the soda they get i dont drink, its diet coke. wouldnt touch that shit even if ya paid me. as far as getting another job, thats proving difficult. as far as those who want more than one job, hey more power to ya. in all honesty, i wish i had a second job....a third maybe. reason being is that i miss being on my own. when i had my own place in st louis it made me feel like i acomplished something. tho i learned quickly that things can and do happen, thats why im where im at now.

Im a little confused. You say its hard to find another job. What are you looking for as another job man? Get any damn job you can find, burger king, mcdonalds, walmart, target, lows, thrift store, something. shit anything is better than nothing and dont say you wont work at a fast food place. Money is money and its all spent the same. You should be able to find a job within a few months if you really WANT to. You just have to never stop until you get it

[Superjay]

ya think its really that easy? all i have to do is go out and get another job. gee why didn't i think of that? oh wait i did. I've been filling out apps all over the place and followed up on a couple. Still nothing. also about school, i found the papers for it and started to fill them out. but came across a problem. the course they had me marked down for was the wrong one. they had me down to take a motorcycle mechanics class, when i had said i was interested in automotive tech. now i suggest we drop this.

you suggest we drop this, or what? you brought it up. you also seem to have a lot of pent up anger, and seem to be directing it toward the wrong place. I don't think your grandparents are the issue here...rather YOU are your issue. YOU feel like a failure and are angry about it. I've been there. I know the feeling, but point your aggression in the right direction...at yourself. it's not your grandparents' fault you are where you are...they are trying to help. And by making you work at their house they are keeping you from becoming sedentary. That's a hard hole to climb out of. they're doing you a favor.

[BassHead1990]

I say motivate him instead of making it worse lol

[hershy314]

what ive accomplished in 3 years is not much, partly my fault yes. how ever if things were easy for me i wouldnt know what to do. all my life ive made my own way, well maybe not as a child. but ever since i was 16 and had my first job. i wish it was as easy as ya'll make it sound. go out get another job, problem tho i cant land another job. not sure why either, im polite and smile. all that good stuff.

[Superjay]

I never said it was easy...I said STFU and learn to appreciate what's being given to you

[FiBTLforlife]

ya think its really that easy? all i have to do is go out and get another job. gee why didn't i think of that? oh wait i did. I've been filling out apps all over the place and followed up on a couple. Still nothing. also about school, i found the papers for it and started to fill them out. but came across a problem. the course they had me marked down for was the wrong one. they had me down to take a motorcycle mechanics class, when i had said i was interested in automotive tech. now i suggest we drop this.

You sound like you always have an excuse. You could always have accomplished but damn something went wrong. Don't bite the hand that feeds. If you could afford to feed, shelter and live on your own you would. You'd be in the street if they didnt help you out.

Ever thought about a room mate? Getting a gf? Doing something other than complaining about your grandparents?

Dont suggest a GF man, that can lead to a baby and well right now we are dealing with one already

[BassHead1990]

what ive accomplished in 3 years is not much, partly my fault yes. how ever if things were easy for me i wouldnt know what to do. all my life ive made my own way, well maybe not as a child. but ever since i was 16 and had my first job. i wish it was as easy as ya'll make it sound. go out get another job, problem tho i cant land another job. not sure why either, im polite and smile. all that good stuff.

never give up and keep moving, you haven't found the job that is wanting you yet, it's like they say about the girl for you, there's a girl out there for everyone, just have to encounter her, you haven't met your girl yet lol

[hershy314]

ok the soda they get i dont drink, its diet coke. wouldnt touch that shit even if ya paid me. as far as getting another job, thats proving difficult. as far as those who want more than one job, hey more power to ya. in all honesty, i wish i had a second job....a third maybe. reason being is that i miss being on my own. when i had my own place in st louis it made me feel like i acomplished something. tho i learned quickly that things can and do happen, thats why im where im at now.

Im a little confused. You say its hard to find another job. What are you looking for as another job man? Get any damn job you can find, burger king, mcdonalds, walmart, target, lows, thrift store, something. shit anything is better than nothing and dont say you wont work at a fast food place. Money is money and its all spent the same. You should be able to find a job within a few months if you really WANT to. You just have to never stop until you get it

yes i am having a hard time finding another job. i'm applying every where too. mainly at family restaraunts only cause thats where i have the most experience. sure i'd love to work at like walmart, or best buy or anywhere thats different than what i'm used too. think thats part of my problem, ive fallen in to sort of a rut. but i will be making a better effort. i'm sure my grandparents want a better life for me and all. but the way they go about it, makes me feel like they are telling what is best for me. instead of letting me figure it out on my own.

[hershy314]

id have to say no to the roommate only cause ive had very bad luck with those. ive had both male and female roommates. it never turned out good. my first roommate was the worst. i was kicked out for not being able to afford the rent after he was laid off. he owned the home and decided that he would jack my rent from 250 to 600 a month. and said that if i couldnt pay it to gtfo. so i did. and yes i agree a gf would be the last thing i need right now. but no a gf doesnt mean having a baby, ive had a few gfs before and none of them got pregnant cause of me.