I personally love christmas for all the right reasons, family. This is my grandfathers last christmas, he only has about 2 weeks left in him tops (lung cancer) and it was nice to see a smile on his face! My grandparents usually go nuts on the holidays, but with my grandfather being too weak to even get out of his chair I didn't receive one gift at our family get together, and I could have cared less! It ment alot to me that he was still around for christmas, and I thank god he was, there for a while I doubted he would make it. Be thankful for all that you have, and enjoy christmas for what it is supposed to be.. FAMILY