jmitch Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 stay positive and all will work out for the best. Quote I know a lil about everything so dont call me Mr. Know it All. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Basshead08 Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 Well man good luck with everything. Im goin through a similar situation and from experience, you both have to make yourselves happy and if you do get back together her family will eventually realize they are missing out on your daughter's life bc of their own petty bs and will hopefully come around. Quote System tear out has begun...Out with the old i have a iq of 128 i graduated at the top of my class tell me how im reatrded you are the 1 thats dumb as hell you can't even spell Look at the underlined text hahahahahahahaha I think of it as the virgin losing the virginity technique not just jumping in to it, and pounding away, but going at it slowly over time, to get to that full extreme Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forevrbumpn Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 Love shouldn't be based on a parents opinion (unless your in a arranged marriage religion) I don't know how true Romeo and Juliet was, since it was just a story based on a play, but them 2 crazy lovers, loved each other, and there families couldn't stop them- Well, maybe thats a bad example, since they both died But you know where I'am getting at, right? Quote I have a ritual called "terminator". I crouch in the shower in the "naked terminator" pose. With eyes closed I crouch for a minute and visualize either Arnie or the guy from the 2nd movie. I then start to hum the T2 theme. Slowly I rise to a standing position and open my eyes. It helps me get through my day. The only problem is if the shower curtain sticks to my terminator leg. It sorta ruins the fantasy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LT.Smoke Posted July 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 Thanks again Forevrbumpn that was quite the analogy but yea i dont want to compare to Romeo and Juliet cuz we are both alive and very healthy LOL Quote Team MaxRetribution Si Vis Pacem Parabellum Id rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6 Bowhunting- Life Begins and Ends at Full Draw Bowhunting Team Fatal Trajectory Hunt Team http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/49335-sick96vtecaccords-t-line-build/?hl=sick96vtecaccord << Accord Build http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/68498-smokedout08impalas-tline-build/?hl=+sick96vtecaccord << Impala T-line build Rebassed.com for all your music needs 👌 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unhealthy Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 While it is true that sometimes when people separate then get back together, they are doomed to repeat. It is also true, that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Maybe being apart for a while is what you guys needed to make you realize what you want. I don't know if it would work or not, but i guarantee if you don't give it another chance you will regret it for the rest of your life. You will always wonder "what if?". I can tell by reading your posts that you are in love with her, and I can tell that if the decision did not involve outside opinions you would go back with her in a heartbeat. So my advice is follow your heart, you cant let the opinions of her family ruin your chance. You need to realize that you, her, and your daughter are a family also. Her parents are a part of your families extended family. Maybe, you could try to change their mind about you, if they don't accept you, then that is their problem. Any parent who would not at least attempt to support their daughters decision, even if they do not agree, has their own issues to deal with. If you do decide to get back with her, the most important thing you both need to learn, is how to not let small issues become big. Overlook the little stuff and focus on the good parts of your relationship, don't dwell on the fights and arguments. Basically if I was you, I would sit down with her, I would tell her exactly how I felt. I would explain that i want to give it another chance and if she feels the same, I would go for it and see what happens. If it does work out, her parents would come around eventually, especially if you make an effort to make their daughter happy. It takes very little effort to do a few small things a day to show someone you care, and obviously you guys' daughter would be better off with mommy and daddy together and happy. GO FOR IT, YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO. / Dr. Phil-like ramblings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LT.Smoke Posted July 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 Well after talking to her not to long ago she said she is going to to think long and hard about what to do because she wants me back so badly but doesnt want to lose her family and i can understand that. I told her that i love her regardless and will support any decision that she makes as long as she ultimately is happy. She told me thats what is making this so hard. I guess the best thing i can do is just be there for her Quote Team MaxRetribution Si Vis Pacem Parabellum Id rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6 Bowhunting- Life Begins and Ends at Full Draw Bowhunting Team Fatal Trajectory Hunt Team http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/49335-sick96vtecaccords-t-line-build/?hl=sick96vtecaccord << Accord Build http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/68498-smokedout08impalas-tline-build/?hl=+sick96vtecaccord << Impala T-line build Rebassed.com for all your music needs 👌 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotdog Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 (edited) If technically your still married and you have a child together... her family should be a non issue. I had issues with my parents wanting to get involved with my marriage and I actually did not talk to them for 1 year but they finally came back around and everything worked out. They are just trying to control your wife and as soon as she puts her foot down maybe they will be upset but they will get over it. Your immediate family always comes first. Edited July 24, 2009 by Hotdog Quote (NEW) 2004 F-150 Build Log -->http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/192208-hotdogs-f-150-build-log/ 2003 Mercury Mountaineer Build Log --> http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/114380-hotdogs-2003-mountaineer-build-log-20-removed/page__gopid__1602379#entry1602379 2008 Equinox Build Log --> http://www.stevemead...g/#entry1475764 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuseikan Posted July 24, 2009 Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 If you love something let it go, and if it doesn't come back then it wasn't ment to be. In your case it did come back. You guys have a family together. If no one cheated, and no one hit one another. Then everything else is just petty and not worth splitting up your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LT.Smoke Posted July 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2009 Im going to let her make that final decision. Either way she will be in my life forever because we have a child together. I just pray that she chooses me. I will keep you guys posted on the status of our situation. **Its really great to know that i have so many people to talk to and that are willing to show me support THANK YOU GUYS** Quote Team MaxRetribution Si Vis Pacem Parabellum Id rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6 Bowhunting- Life Begins and Ends at Full Draw Bowhunting Team Fatal Trajectory Hunt Team http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/49335-sick96vtecaccords-t-line-build/?hl=sick96vtecaccord << Accord Build http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/68498-smokedout08impalas-tline-build/?hl=+sick96vtecaccord << Impala T-line build Rebassed.com for all your music needs 👌 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unhealthy Posted August 1, 2009 Report Share Posted August 1, 2009 so, what happened? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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