Need some girl advice.

[tristan560]

I'm just climbing out of the same position you are in and it's whats working for me, kyle is right though, actions speak louder than words

I hear ya guys, im doing all the sweet little things i can think of. I just hope they mean something to her.

[sayhuh?]

“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.”

[Tek]

I was in the same boat (we were together 2 years at the time). I kept on trying so hard to talk and work shit out. Than I just stopped talking to her and was just careless and I didnt give a fuck anymore about it, and within a week she was back being like "I want to be back with you so bad" and all that shit. SHowing that I didnt give a shit worked for me, I don't recommend though cuz it may make shit even worse.

[tristan560]

Haha i dont see that working out too well in my case.

[tehbert0]

if she needs space make sure you give her some

[Tek]

Haha i dont see that working out too well in my case.

hence me telling you that I don't recommend it lol. I wasn't acting at the time though, it just worked out that way.

[LT.Smoke]

Haha i dont see that working out too well in my case.

Just keep doing like you are doing bro but with that being said dont go out of your way to be extra nice because if she thinks your just being nice to get her back then she will be history. Just remain your same old self and be a stand up guy and she will see the good side of you.

[Drek75633]

I just got rid of mine. I just got tired of the kid bullshit. Always arguin and shit. But yea dude. Give her a few days. Let her think about things. And if she says that her mind is made up. Then try and at least be friends with her. If she agrees to at least be friends. You're in the clear. Cuz after awhile of being friends and ya'll hangin out. Those feelings will start coming back. Just hang in there man.

[Ignantfi3d]

Wow Tristan...

Reading this is like reading my own biography. I have the same exact shit goin on with my girl (now ex) of 7 years. She's doing and saying all the same shit that you've been posting. It's fuckin rough man, but I feel ya. If you wanna talk about shit you can hit me up on AIM Psychokilla97.

I wish you nothing but luck in this finagle of women troubles.

[MickyMcD]

If you love it, let it go.

If it comes back, it's yours forever.

If it doesn't, it was never yours to love in the first place.

Either that or punch it in the pooper. No lube or anything, just bam like 40-grit sandpaper.

Cheers,

Mick