Hi there...
Ive had many problems in my fam growing up, however a death wasnt one of them... But on the suicidal issue, she needs help ASAP...U need to be there for her and quick. She needs to know that she is special, and it sounds to me that you're the only person that can do this right now...Take her somewhere, a movie, ne where to get her out of that house because..to her right now the house is symbolizing something negative in her mind..the death, the chores, and the mom...she needs to get away from there...everybody has their problems...good luck bro
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