My Bad Thread

[dwright27]

Okay, some of you may or may not know, ive been with the same girl since 8th grade ... which is around 5 - 6 years. Well, we were looking at moving out before i lost my job at the cabinet shop. Well, my income being cut by 2/3rds eliminated that for me. Well, she is still stuck on it, and she REALLY cant afford it. But everytime i try to prove a point to her she thinks im putting her down. she makes $800 - 900 at the most per month and the place she is looking at is $400 a month. she has a car payment of $300 a month, and a cell phone bill of $100 a month. Off the rip thats $800. Her insurance has to be full coverage, which is at least another $100 a month. not to mention her gas, electricity and her water and extra stuff she wants to go out and do. so she is still looking at over $1100 a month and she thinks im trying to put her down by trying to show her the truth of the world. She seems to think i wanna live with my parents for the rest of my life because im 19 and CANT AFFORD to move out, ive graduated high school and have nothing but bills ...... told her, who else has anything that doesnt have bills that is our age unless it was handed to them. She didnthave a response except to call me a mommas boy.

im lost with that situation how me wanting the best for her is putting her down. she can barely afford her car payment and cell phone bill living with me and my parents not paying ANY rent or bills. On top of that we are having other problems. We fight EVERY single day ALL day. She is mad cause i dont wanna go to bed when she does. We went to a "romantic" dinner last night and argued 125% of the time we was there.

IDK what to do. I wanna try and work things out because i feel like the last 6 years would have been just a huge waste of time. SHE HAS THE WORST attitude ive ever seen or encountered. She cares about nothing!!! If she dont like it it doesnt matter, if it doesnt interest her, she dont care. im lost with this as well. IM SOOOOO sick of her. ive actually been kinda trying to get her out my life because she is just so negative and depressed all the time its starting to effect me.

opinions?

Ninja Edit: She thinks that the rules and laws dont apply to her. She said if they try to kick her out for not paying rent whe wouldnt leave etc. that she dont care. She doesnt think her car is important to her that if she cant afford to make her car payment then she will just let them take it back/repo it. but i guess it hasnt hit her yet that she lives 30 miles from her job and has NO other means of transportation to get back and forth to pay her OTHER bills.

[Aaron813]

Man woman can be that way Dustin just keep your head and ask your self if she is really worth all the BS thats going on

[finkster]

Just like Jay Z said

"They say if u love it, you should let it out its cage and fuck it...if it comes back you know its there to stay "

[dwright27]

Man woman can be that way Dustin just keep your head and ask your self if she is really worth all the BS thats going on

i just cant seem to get her to understand she doesnt make that much a month to move out right now. she thinks i dont wanna move out but i REALLY do, i just KNOW that i cant afford it right now.

idk though man it seems ALL it is, is just a bunch of bullshit man.

and chubby, ive let her go before, she came back, but this negative depressed shit with her has to stop. Like tonight, she went and stayed with her friend Emilee, so i think. she shady dude, i dont know if shes cheating, or if shes not but I dont like it and i got bad feelings. so idk. im excited for her to get her own place but, shes following in her mom and sisters foot steps, and both of them are some of the biggest whores around the area .....

[uhoh_45]

keep your pimp hand strong my friend

[bumonskateboard6]

It's probably just rough for her right now, girls get their mind set on something and want it more than anything in the world. She deep down knows that moving out is not going to be possible for her, however she had her mind set on moving out with you. Sometimes girls seem irrational thinking that other circumstances (losing a job) shouldn't affect their happiness and what they want.

The fact that she's not getting what she wants right now is what is causing her to be upset, and rather than admit and work through the hard time right now she thinks it is easier to say you're putting her down than realize that she can't do it at this exact moment in time.

If you to have been together 5-6 years it's obviously going somewhere so I don't say that you should just cut her out of your life, but instead sit down with her and talk about the options you have both of you are adults and need to discuss where you feel the relationship is going, and see what your plans can be for the future if you want to be a part of each other's future.

[bumonskateboard6]

keep your pimp hand strong my friend

Oh yeah can't forget that one.

[Melissa]

Not to sound harsh...but she sounds like a spoiled brat!

[Ram]

.......this is a car audio forum. not dr.phil.

[Neo_frog]

I'll tell you what...the whole chronic negative attitude and outlooks WILL beat you into a pulp emotionally. I tried and tried to put up with the same shit for ten years only to find out the bitch was doing way worse.

And it happened while I was overseas....in my apartment...in my bed.

She may not be doing what my ex-wife was doing, but I say get out of it while you can. It's never a waste if you are happy in the end. Love can sometimes keep you trying, but you gotta think of yourself once in a while. Nobody else should ever bring you down.

Who knows...it might give her a reality check if you tell her you're done.