Daddy_ Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Four years ago a guy moved into my one bedroom basement suite and we became really good buddies. He is from the Fiji Islands like I am which made us click even more. Sadly, last ear he had to have surgery and moved out and I was really sad he was leaving. But once he had gotten better he called and came back and lived in the suite again. Yesterday June 11 2012 he was found dead sitting in his chair and had a heart attack and was only 41. Me and him became so close we were like brothers. We would go everywhere together like car audio shops and looking and cars etc. I am so upset, sad that I cant even describe it. Even though he was not my real family we treated him like family. I looked up to him like my older brother. I am a type of person where If something like this happens I show no emtion to anyone. When I am by myself I've been thinking about him and thinking is he really gone and start crying. I am trying to hold it in but needed to tell someone. Quote Car: 2012 Acura TL Elite Head Unit: JL Audio Fix86 Front Stage : Alpine SPX-17PRO Rear Stage : Alpine SPR-60C Component Amp : JL Audio HD 600/4 Sub : 1 12" JL Audio W7 Sub Amp : JL Audio HD 1200 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OrionStang Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Its all good man. You can talk to anybody here. If you really need someone, PM me, i'll give you my number. Sorry for your loss. Quote SMD Super Seller My Feedback Thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dog24fret Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Sorry for your your loss sir.They don't have to be blood to become family.I'll keep you in my prayers and thoughts. Quote Cowboy Escort GrAnny ThUmper The Burp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy_ Posted June 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 I talked to him last on Saturday at 2:30. We spoke for about an hour and then I headed inside because I had to go to work. He has a 2003 Sliver Dodge Durango with full dual exhausts and it rumbles very loud. I can hear him whenever he leaves and coming back home. Sometimes I think to myself oh he just went somewhere and I will hear his truck rumbling down into my driveway. But when I lock in the driveway I see his turck is there and he is gone. We were in a middle of getting him some subs and had big plans for his truck. Everytime I look out the window and see his truck it reminds me of him but I show nothing infron of my family or his family but go in my room and start crying. I just need to let it out. Sadly I wont be able to attend his funeral and I am a student and work part time. His parents are taking him back to his home town where his mom and dad still live and is 5 hours away. If it was somewhere near by I would skip school and work to go. I hope he understands but I will not get to say good bye. Quote Car: 2012 Acura TL Elite Head Unit: JL Audio Fix86 Front Stage : Alpine SPX-17PRO Rear Stage : Alpine SPR-60C Component Amp : JL Audio HD 600/4 Sub : 1 12" JL Audio W7 Sub Amp : JL Audio HD 1200 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RMac18 Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Sorry for your loss. With how close you's were I sure he would understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowDrifter Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 I'm sorry for your loss. I truly am. Let me know if you need a shoulder to cry on. I will keep you in my prayers. Quote ~~~~~~~~SAY NO TO PHOTOBUCKET~~~~~~~~ Snow's DD-1 tracks here: https://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/167433-snows-dd-1-tracks/ My take on OFC vs CCA: https://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/110381-things-that-piss-you-off-in-the-car-audio-world/?do=findComment&comment=2461444 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dog24fret Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 That sucks you are unable to go.I think he would understand and wouldn't want you beat yourself up man.You got to say goodbye in you heart.When it comes to this situation thats all that can be done.There is no real goodbyes just whats in our hearts at the services.And that can be held anywhere. Quote Cowboy Escort GrAnny ThUmper The Burp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SmallTruk Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 I know how you're feeling, I don't show emotion either. I know that no matter what people say trying to make you feel better with comparisons, analogies or inspirational sayings the only thing that will make a difference is time. Keep yourself busy and in time the pain of your loss won't be so overwhelming. You're never going to forget him but time will ease the way you're feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentonLong Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 may he rest in peace, i know how it fells to lose a really close friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87chevyboi Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 ive loss countless homies and people that should have been blood the way we treated each other, i have not attended every funeral but i know they are still smiling down on me and cant be mad. i have tats for some of them and memories for the others. be strong he wouldnt want you to be down, i dont know the guy but he was prolly a happy person so i doubt hed want you to cry. Sorry for your loss Quote My build aka Snow White whats wrong with fat chicks? they are like mopeds, as long as your friends dont see you riding it, they are a blast! hahah I am dumb as a stump. I live in the south and we are all dumb here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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