SnowDrifter Posted July 19, 2013 Report Share Posted July 19, 2013 One of my friends, who has always been slightly pessimistic, has been burning bridges, closing off friendships, talking like he wants people to hate him. He says there is no point in doing anything. I guess what I'm asking is: Do you think this is something I should act on? If he isn't really suicidal, I don't want to blow things up and make a big deal over nothing. If he is: Where do I go from here? He's a long distance friend, so it's not like I can easily drop by his house and see what's up. ~~~~~~~~SAY NO TO PHOTOBUCKET~~~~~~~~ Snow's DD-1 tracks here: https://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/167433-snows-dd-1-tracks/ My take on OFC vs CCA: https://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/110381-things-that-piss-you-off-in-the-car-audio-world/?do=findComment&comment=2461444 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airborne Posted July 19, 2013 Report Share Posted July 19, 2013 ask him bluntly if he wants to die or kill himself. If you get a yes then call 911. Get that dude some help before they ruin the lives of everyone around them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rockford96 Posted July 19, 2013 Report Share Posted July 19, 2013 Maybe talk to his family and let them know? Tell them to keep a close eye on him if you dont feel its enough to confront him about but its better to act now and have him upset at you for confronting him then to have him do something stupid and you regret not saying something My setup, Digital Designs M80 3 Re audio 10's ported tuned to 36 hz Kenwood x-696 SHCA 0 gauge Polk audio coax running off hu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OrionStang Posted July 19, 2013 Report Share Posted July 19, 2013 Ask him directly. Bottom line though, if he wants to do it he will. Unfortunately. SMD Super Seller My Feedback Thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big dee Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 Have you ever thought he has other friends out side if your circle of friends? Maybe he don't like y'all no more or something . I've had to clean house my self and start over with new friends. But my old friends are crazy and wild . Lifestyle differences is all nothing personal. I don't know man it's just a thought Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mtnbikecrazy55 Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 Ask him straight up if he's going to kill himself. Don't bullshit around or try to hint or anything, ask him straight up. I hate long signatures.... ...what the fuck is wrong wiht you you fucking fuckity fuck fuck head... Mtnbikecrazy55 Feedback Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carbon Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 He won't... Its always the quiet ones who do. No one ever had an intention that they would do it. Next thing you know they are gone. The ones that talk about it are just attention whores. BUT. I am not a doctor nor a SP hotline. do what you think it right man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorman Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 He won't... Its always the quiet ones who do. No one ever had an intention that they would do it. Next thing you know they are gone. The ones that talk about it are just attention whores. BUT. I am not a doctor nor a SP hotline. do what you think it right man. My shop owner planned his suicide for years before he did it. It was all explained in his letter. Ask him straight up, Snow. Edit: Reading > me 1996 GMC Sonoma Four Fi BTL Neo 18's In 2:1 6th Order Bandpass 2 Ampere 5k's @ .5 TEAM FI TEAM #LITHIUMCANTDEMO On 10/20/2013 at 0:37 AM, KillaCam said: Fucking with a Prius driver is like making fun of a disabled kid. Pussies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carbon Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 He won't... Its always the quiet ones who do. No one ever had an intention that they would do it. Next thing you know they are gone. The ones that talk about it are just attention whores. BUT. I am not a doctor nor a SP hotline. do what you think it right man. My shop owner planned his suicide for years before he did it. It was all explained in his letter. Ask him straight up, Snow. Holy hell thats rare. Had a friend that offed himself with his pistol 4 hours after the crew was chilling over my friends place. He was not ever depressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big dee Posted July 20, 2013 Report Share Posted July 20, 2013 I for see my death as a fiery high speed car crash . Or my crazy x that's stalking me . But killing my self no! Lol yea you might should sit down with him an have a heart to heart an see where this guys minds at. Don't push to much he could take you with him if he's in a bad place in his mind. You never realy know so be carefull Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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