SLAYER1805 Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 Tell them you'll release custody the day she can pass a drug test. All in seriousness that's some shit man, hope you make through it. What I find weird is how her stepmom was found dead after she gives you information, keep your guard up bro as a precaution. Shit like that would've been raised as a red flag for me.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieHoward Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 She is not a mother, she is an addict. This story is a page out of my (old) life. I have had full custody of my kids since '02. Their mom can't quit fucking up. All you need is time and trust me she will make decisions that will land the kids in your lap. She can't help it. The kids are not the most important thing in her life - her habit is. Take it from me man an addict only cares about the next high. She is going to gift wrap those kids for you, just make sure that you are there when she does. And quit being a softie. I know how you feel but you need to do what your HEAD is telling you to do, not your HEART. Your decisions need to be governed by logic, not emotions. You are the one that has to keep a level head for everyone involved. The kids are depending on you, as they don't have anyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raolito1980 Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 Man this sucks bro. My girlfriend is going through crap with her babies dad. He is so irresponsible. His mother is the one that watches over him when he has him over for the weekend. She will make a mistake. And like allot have said your kids will be back in your arms soon. 2012 GMC SIerra CC System Build Headunit--Stock Sub Amp--DC 2.0k Subs--2-SA8v2's Enclosure--Need one made!! Highs Amp--Sundown SAX-100.4 Front Highs--Rockford Fosgate T2652-S Rear--Sundown Neo Pro 6.5 XS Power D2400--XS D3400 No Big Three yet! http://www.youtube.c...ser/raolito1980 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ric006 Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 im not allowed to see my kids for a year cuz of my crazy lieing x wife Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
russtezecustoms Posted June 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 Thanks everyone for the kind words. The stepmom supposedly had a heart attack due to her medication. Or lack therof. I wish someone would try to bring me some trouble. Im a former active marine and pretty well armed, or i will be after i get the stuff out of storage on sunday after she picks up the kids. Dont want the kids around the guns. I just wish i had a funny sig. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ric006 Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 if she is anything like mine she will get an OP against you next and lie about shit to keep you away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smoove Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 I dated a woman who an addict and hid it very well. It started with alcohol in than progressed to adding 7 vicodin a day plus anti-depressants. She already had kids but they definitely weren't mine. So I fully understand how manipulative addicts can be and it sucks. Only reason I kept her around for a year and a half was I didn't want her kids to end up homeless. So to hear you are having to go through all that BS. 2 Team Fi 15's v1 2 DD M5's 970amps of Alt 6th order blowthroughThe truck Blowthrough build : http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/155555-smooves-1996-chevy-ext-cab-c1500-slow-build/The 350z build : http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/170694-smooves-2003-nissan-350z/ My FB page https://www.facebook.com/pages/Smooves-Car-Audio-and-performance/719746144805343 Team Fi Audio http://www.ficaraudio.com/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skittlesRgood Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 so you're a clean, alcohol free, guy who kept hooking up with an alcoholic drug user... after that part of the story the rest of it seems like an obvious outcome to me lol. I sympathize but while she dug the hole that you're in, you handed her the shovel and jumped in the hole. If I answered you in a well mannered, informative way, you asked a good question or had a good attitude. If I was an asshole, you asked a stupid question or you had a fucktard attitude... or I was in a bad mood. Team BassickHU: Pioneer AVIC Z110Front: Peerless SLS 6.5", Peerless HDS 4", Rainbow tweeter - running activeAmp: JL HD600/4 and DC 4 channel (bridged to midbass)Processor: JBL MS-8Subs: 2x 12" AA MayhemsAmp: DC 3kElectrical: DC power 270xp alt. 1/0 big 4. XSpower D3400 and six D680s. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/121795-29-update-the-buick-is-getting-a-rebuild/ Top career scores: DBdrag 151.7 MECA SQ 82.25My SOTM build Yeah. im pretty sure they dont warranty retarded people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big dee Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 Some women are sorry as hell. This is a fine example of that . It's time the courts start to listin to the fathers instead of the one sided bullshit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamHT Posted June 14, 2013 Report Share Posted June 14, 2013 I really hate to be the asshole here but...well...you couldn't even get custody of children in a battle against a meth'd out alcoholic with history of abuse, neglect, and court ordered separation. The system definitely isn't the best baht if you honestly could not win the system isn't the problem here. What it sounds like is you're too nice and keep expecting people to bend to you. If you truly loved your kids, biological or not, this wouldn't even be a situation. You'd have the kids and she'd never see them again. Ever. Tell me...does this smell like chloroform to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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