TeejayBee Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 Alright so my Actual father hasn't really done much for due many things. When i was 1 year old my parents split and a year later my moms got married to my step-dad whos been my dad for 16 years now and i can't complain about any part of step dad is a great influence with military and all. But my mom told me the two years ago that my dad cheated on her twice and told me how he would try to steal my from her so he wouldnt need to pay child support which he hasn't payed since they split but my mom said that my dad and my step mom didnt need to due to not being able to afford child support and a house and such. So its been going on that i've wanted my step dad to adobt me and ill have his last name and be done with my dads drama and crap he dosn't do anything for me. and hes skipped buying me a xmas gift and b-day gift since i was 16 but he can buy my little brother a 71 mustang to re-build?? which will cost well over 20k due to all the body work and re doing the engine and wireing. But now that hes heard im doing Special Ops in the air Force and he wants to be apart of my life hes been up my ass with texting and calling and i dont respond to any of it. So its come down to my moms contacting my grandma whos a lawyer to get paper work for the name change and adoption stuff. But am I wrong for wanting to do this? Now i will say its more then whats been said, but im summing it up . and I've been debated on when to send him a letter or email about what im doing because he dosn't know about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
99vic Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 i think its cool,but its your decision bro. it seems your step pops, is more of a dad than your real father will ever be. if it were me id do it, no point of carrying a name of some looser that has never been there for you. Quote REST IN PARADISE BIG RICH (Sqmonte) never forgotten Why do you guys ALWAYS dispute on NUMBERS????? It's such a played out argument, so fucking annoying.... It's 12 fuckin 15's.... It's louder than you... Shut the fuck up... /Rant I'm so jealous, it makes me want to club baby seals. That shit gets down HARD!dont buy from knowledge he will scam you. http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/30995-official-knowledge-feedback/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeejayBee Posted May 3, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 Thats what im saying, My real father wants to live a dream through what im doing now because hes a to lazy to get up and workout and all that shit, and My step dad has been my dad i have ten times more repsect for him due to just being in Iraq for 3 years and just everything hes done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parton226 Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 (edited) i would do it too bro i know about the whole dad leavin then comin back and tryin to be all well yeah lol i say do it Edited May 3, 2010 by parton226 Quote parton226 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxim Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 I can see where you're coming from. I don't think there's anything wrong with you wanting to change your last name and stuff. From what your story tells, your biological father wasn't filling the role of being your father growing up. If you call your step-dad "dad" and he fills the fatherly role in your life, then it should be up to you whether you want to be adopted. Quote wtf is lolcats? I'd def get a fat hooker if i had to resort to that kinda thing. I feel like they'd be grateful and work harder. Also its more bang for my buck, more real estate for my dollar if you catch my drift. its like the Costco of streetwalkers. I was hoping for 150 . I was hoping she would let me put it in her butt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeejayBee Posted May 3, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 yeah i just need to think of what to say with the Letter or email Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbdblue Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 I dont see anything wrong with that. he technically is your dad. maybe not blood. but its been his influence for the past 16 years that made you who you are. Quote AA-Atomic-Clif Designs-DC-Diamond-Digital Designs-Directed-Eclipse-Fi-Hertz-Hifonics-Kenwood-Memphis-Phoenix Gold-Pioneer-PPI-PSi-Stinger-Sundown-TC Sounds-Viper-Zapco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AUDIOADDICT02 Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 Your not wrong, I'd say go for it, I wouldn't want to represent a loser with my name either... P.S. That's a first, everyone I know hates their step-dad.... Quote CHECK OUT MY MYSPACE; SOME PAINT WORK I'VE DONE: http://www.myspace.c...customcreationz DODGE RAM 1500 QUAD CAB BOX BUILD: http://www.stevemead...showtopic=48978 DODGE RAM 1500 RUMBLEBEE EDITION CUSTOM ENCLOSURE: http://www.stevemead...showtopic=48983 PREFAB REMODELING: http://www.stevemead...box-remodeling/ G35 CUSTOM PAINTED L7 BOX: http://www.stevemead...om-painted-box/ CHEVY SINGLE CAB PAINTED SUB BOX/AMP RACK: http://www.stevemead...vy-boxamp-rack/ KICKER L512 BOX BUILT TO SPECS: http://www.stevemead...-kicker-l5-box/ RF HE2 10'S KERF PORTED BOX: http://www.stevemead...erf-ported-box/ 2 DC LEVEL 3 15'S KERF ENCLOSURE: http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/115502-kerf-ported-enclosure/ 2 HCCA 15'S PORTED ENCLOSURE: http://www.stevemeadedesigns.com/board/topic/129468-2-hcca-15s-enclosure/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamHT Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 there are some similarities in our stories. for a reason that will remain private, my parents divorced. i was 10 when they split and my mum remarried. immediately following the marriage me and my 5 siblings were adopted and names changed. 15years later it is not a choice i had any voice in but one i am glad to have happened. my dad (technically my stepdad) is more of a father than my biological father has ever been. he loves my mum and loves each of us children as if we were of his own blood. he is the one who has been there for me, the one to teach me about body work, engine work, painting, and audio equipment. he is the reason i am the man i am today. when i have chidren of my own the best thing i can do to honor him is carry on his name and his legacy. and i wouldnt have it any other way. it can seem wrong because no matter what you know true to be right and wrong, your father is your father. but the bond between father and son is not defined by blood, but by love. if your stepdad has been your father like how mine has been to me, then he is your dad. be adopted, and share love with people who actually love you. Quote Tell me...does this smell like chloroform to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imfrom210texas Posted May 3, 2010 Report Share Posted May 3, 2010 Or you could keep up the name in the honor of the good guys that you're related to. Be open-minded with your decision. IMO, DONT do anything out of spite, be logical, as this is very important Quote If Morgan Freeman narrated a story on how great AIDS is, I would be captivated and tempted to contract it myself. His voice just fills my soul with warm fuzzies and puppy tears. He has NO idea and may have a touch of autism to be honest. Is this guy real or is he joking? i actually mistook him for a lesbian in that demo video Wanted to mess around with a box for the garage. Was thinking 4 6x9 in 4 cube at like 30 hz... These are the things that make me lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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