Would you want to know if you were cheated on? (Poll inside)

[JEMT8]

I'm doing some research...

would you want to know if your lady cheated on you?

If you say yes, would you want to find out from only her or would you not give a shit who told you as long as there is significant evidence to back up their claim?

Discuss...

[gckless]

Hell yes. So I could kick that hoe's ass to the curb.

[CstrokerV]

I'm doing some research...

If you were in an otherwise "healthy" relationship, would you want to know if your lady cheated on you?

If you say yes, would you want to find out from only her or would you not give a shit who told you as long as there is significant evidence to back up their claim?

Discuss...

Uhhh if you were in a healthy relationship wouldn't of been cheated on to begin with. And personally i wouldn't care who told me the out come would be the same.Ride the relationship for what its worth untill i met some one else..

[Mr DeeBeez]

absolutely. i was told from some friends when this happened to me, and it made it worse. i would rather have her tell me. something about everyone else knowing it happened and being the only one not knowing makes it worse i think. either way, the result would be the same. the relationship would be no more. time to say good bye and try to move on.

[Mr Bigolsworth]

if someone cheats then there is no way your relationship is healthy. Most women don't have the sex drive men have. so when they do cheat its to find the fulfillment they feel they are lacking. Its extremely rare that a women would cheat just for the physical part of sex. Not to mention if that is the case the thousand of different sex toys you could bring to bed to fulfill what ever sexual need she has can be meet. and if she can't talk to you about her sexual needs that are not being fulfilled than communication and trust is a issue that is keeping you from a healthy relationship. This is all my personal opinion based off what i have seen or heard from girls. Im in the military so i travel a lot and a lot of peoples girlfriends and wives cheat due to most of the reasons i listed. It is usually the women who can be independent and have full trust in your relationship who have the healthy and lasting relationships in my experience.

IF SHE DOES CHEAT AND WONT TELL YOU THEN YOU HAVE BIGGER ISSUES

[_paralyzed_]

My man and I are in an open relationship, so thats not an issue.

[JEMT8]

I suppose healthy wasn't the proper word to use lol

[JEMT8]

Whoops I accidently deleted the poll... We were up to 6 yes and 0 no the last I looked

[Ahmed Johnson]

I put no. I don't want to find out if my WIFE is cheating, a girlfriend then yes. I'll tell you this, women cheat all the time. Especially married women. Sometimes they do it just because they get attention and sometimes they do it for revenge and some of them are born sluts.

[newls1]

you need to come in chat more often you little fucker... been a hot minute since we talked