need help! infant baby involved!

[STEvil]

get names of any officers/experts you have had contact with along with times, dates, and exactly what you told them. Record all conversations with them if possible.

If anything happens you can sue the fucking asses right off the face of the planet.

Also get any info you can pertaining to her or her parents mental health.. and hope to hell your own slate is clean.

[alaskanzx5]

I've known and still know a lot of people with the same issue. If there is a way to do something through the court system or police department do it. It will only make you look better and building your case. She left state press charges, gotta make sure you show the court how much you care for your son and jump through every hoop they give you.

[WastedTalent]

I don't have a lot of input or info that'd help... but seeing things like this? Makes me proud. I think we can speak for most males... they suck. Usually do get a girl preggo and then leave, never wanting anything to do with the child. So seeing you stand up and all for your child? Good shit right there.

[Torres]

its not my attourney i just call him for advice. for him to work on my case i need $1500.00 cash up front and i dont got cash like that

yours or not...i'd take his advice before going from an audio forum. he *is* a professional after all

[Tarball]

Talk to the lawyer again. You're going to have to suck it up and pay if you are serious about wanting your kid back. If the lawyer sees that you are serious about paying he may be willing to work out a payment arrangement to get started on the case. Make sure to stick to any payment arrangement that you work out.

[Gingeriffik]

You should do 2 things. 1) File the kidnapping report with the local police department with as much detail as possible. That way she only has 2 modes of recourse, either come back on her own, or have the honor of having the U.S. Marshalls service escort her back (kidnapping with transportation across state lines is a Federal offense). 2) You need to call you county attouneys office. They will be the one handeling the criminal case, plus should be able to guide you on how to procede.

EDIT: Another thing to do: Start looking for victom/Advocate groupe geared towards Father in you situation. They should be a wealth of information and support, and alot (generally) have ties to pro bono attouneys.

[Chris Hammer]

Thanks for the advice guys. Im keeping tabs on her and i think ima put the check in the account and then withdraw the money at like 12am before she gets to it. I dont want to loose the money cuz its 300 bucks lol.

If you are the primary remove her from the account explain to them she has gon rogue(for lack of a better term) and that you need to remove here and freeze her card.

Deposit that check after you do this so she can't take the money.

[C-Fizzy]

Damn man, sorry to hear this shits happening. If you wanna talk man I'll be around.

[punkrockprs]

thanks guys. i called the police and they are not to helpfull at this point. i called the police in georgia where she went and they need papers from the police department here and the police department here said they cant do anything over there. its a big mess right now. i have messages from her from a couple months ago stating that she was going to sign custody over to me and see him whenever i let her.. i know how her family is and i know they forced her to go to georgia. she callled me earlier today because the police officer told me to email her and ask if she will give me her adress so we can get custody sorted out and when i talked to her i heard her mom telling her what to say in the background. my sons mom has no backbone i swear she does whatever her mom tells her to wich is really sad cause my sons mom is 22 years old. ud think she wuld make her own decisions. then i sent her a email telling her not to call me on the phone that if she has anything to say to send it to me via email that i do not want any phone conversations going on. i also told the police i wanted to file child kidnapping and they said its not child kidnapping since its the mother its child stealing (idk what the difference is it sounds the same to me) also he said that they cant do anything at this point cause its only been a week and she hasnt shown any signs of taking him from me forever. like she moved across the country what more proof do you need!? im going back to the family court tomorrow to see what i can do.

[Bigsix]

You should do 2 things. 1) File the kidnapping report with the local police department with as much detail as possible. That way she only has 2 modes of recourse, either come back on her own, or have the honor of having the U.S. Marshalls service escort her back (kidnapping with transportation across state lines is a Federal offense). 2) You need to call you county attouneys office. They will be the one handeling the criminal case, plus should be able to guide you on how to procede.

EDIT: Another thing to do: Start looking for victom/Advocate groupe geared towards Father in you situation. They should be a wealth of information and support, and alot (generally) have ties to pro bono attouneys.

If they arent married, and she is the birith mom, and no sort of custody arrangements have been made yet, there aint shit he can do because it is NOT at this point kidnapping. Not good advice in this scenario. What you say would apply if HE had custody of the child and she only had visitation rights and then took off with the kid. Filing a kidnapping report with the local PD at this point would essentially be filing a false police report( birth mother cannot kidnap her own child, based on the specifics of this particular case). The cops in his area dont/ wont get involved because she isnt breaking any laws at the moment. Not to mention out of their jurisdiction.