Would you want to know if you were cheated on? (Poll inside)

[JEMT8]

you need to come in chat more often you little fucker... been a hot minute since we talked

I just popped in there but you left man lol

[White Lightning]

I don't trust my wife no further than I could throw her ...

LOL just kidding ...

[Chris Hammer]

Yes. I don't care who tells me I just want to know. Ive been cheated on twice. Once she told me and the other time a good friend told me. It doesn't make it easier to hear but it does make it easier when you break it off with that person. The second time I got cheated on she dumped me and told me to hurt me more.....but in all honesty it made the break up better for me...anger replaced me feeling sad and took me days to move on from a year long relationship.

[Slagathor]

I think I would like to know....

Been married for almost 25 years, we could work it out....

[LT.Smoke]

Yes I would like to know. Depending on the circumstances and length of time together would ultimately dictate the outcome..

I don't think there is really ever a legitimate reason to cheat though but I guess some scenarios are easier to overcome than others

[Kyblack76]

Maybe ive been married to long.

If you need to be "told" your being cheated on, you should have already known it.

If you are getting cheated on, it is probably your own doing, .... unless your dating a complete whore, which again, is your own doing/fault.

[RainStryke]

Maybe ive been married to long.

If you need to be "told" your being cheated on, you should have already known it.

If you are getting cheated on, it is probably your own doing, .... unless your dating a complete whore, which again, is your own doing/fault.

I used to think that. You can be suspicious but never know because you don't want to or have the time to watch every move your significant other makes and really, you shouldn't have to. I've seen some devious people out there that go through all kinds of hoops to keep their other relationship a secret. At my last job I knew a married woman that would "leave for work" 30-40 minutes every day to get in a quickie with a dude I worked with. It was convenient cause he lived like right across the street from work.

[Krakin]

Ignorance is bliss, however, I have never liked living in ignorance.

[ROLEXrifleman]

Like kyle said, if you have to be told by someone else then your blind. If you didnt see the warning signs you lived in la la land while she was visiting pound town and getting gaped. That or you didn't bother to see you guys were going through scope mouth wash by the gallon every week.

At any rate I live by the Inspect What You Expect Rule and don't be mad when it's used on you because whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

And b4 anyone says you should trust your partner, save it. Anyone who bleeds for 7 days every month and doesnt die cant be trusted

[Karkov]

Voted.

Will have to catch up on this thread later but...

I would want to know by her, right away, so I could get rid of her. That's in a perfect world.

If I had to be told by someone else I guess that would work to but it just makes it that much worse for her because she apparently wasn't gonna tell me.

and...for those that don't want to be told....would you rather wait till she screws 10 other dudes then get an STD instead of finding out and getting rid of the slut? just saying.

It isn't that hard to be faithful. Mind or matter. Don't be weak.

Cheating shows where your heart really is.....